
Truhal
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- I've always believed that life is short so we should cherish our loved ones no matter what. The no matter what is my father. We've never had a good relationship, but over the years, with my refusing to give up on him, we've established a...
- I originally posted this story on my journal, but I thought I might as well post it here, too.Embracing InsanityBy TruhalStrange thing about insanity is that sometimes its down-right comforting. Joe Green discovered that after his wife Laura died. ...
- On my journey of widowhood, I've questioned what's going through my mind. This is a strange one, but I guess the problem with being a widow is that you go from this place of being loved and cherished and protected, to you're on your own in nothing...
- I've never been so sad. My doctor suggested medication, but I'm determined to get through this by the will of God. I don't need another problem such as addition to prescription drugs.Thinking of the pain I'm in now, with no end in site, I couldn't...
- I was just reading an article about a widow who wanted to join a support group for widows, but found only one for divorced and widowed and in between. There was only one other widow in the group and both found themselves envious of others who still...
- I just read that the average age for a widow is 56. Seems rather young to me, but I think most of us are around 50-something.
- I have to move so I've started throwing stuff out. It's horrible. My husband had a side business that he really hoped to get off the ground. I supported him in his efforts because he wanted it so much. There are people who are sucessful at it,...
- It's late, nearly midnight, and I'm thinking of my husband who passed one week ago. I've come to think that when we lose our spouses, we lose the future as well. I just got through removing the movies we wanted to see on netfix. Next, I'll remove...
- Sorry about the aneurysm post. I have no idea how it got in this group since I'm not a member. I'll see if I can delete it.
- Just needed to talk about how my husband went home. Aneurysm. When you hear the word you imagine sudden death. You picture the person up and walking around and suddenly falling to the floor, their life over just that quickly. Although this happens...
- Just needed to talk about how my husband went home. Aneurysm. When you hear the word you imagine sudden death. You picture the person up and walking around and suddenly falling to the floor, their life over just that quickly. Although this...
- My father is a widower. My mother passed eleven years ago. They'd been together nearly 60 years. He's still struggling to get through the days. Now my odyssey has started. My husband died less than a week ago. I've never been so meserable in...
- My mother and father raised me to believe that once the soul leaves the body there is nothing there. My mother died first, requesting no funeral, wake, or memorial be held on her behalf. She died at home so her remains were collected and I never...
- I'm posting this question here instead of on the original post because I'm not sure it would have been read.Since I can't get two ss checks, one from my husband and one for me, doesthat mean I can retire early, collecting my husband's at partial...
- I have a question about social security. My husband and I both worked. Not sure who made the most. When I reach retirement age will I collect two checks?