veggiequeen
Status: moving forward and appreciating what is all around me .
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- This is the time of year when lots of memories come flooding back. For me, I do sometimes feel sad as it will remind me of those no longer with us . But as i did recall several very funny ones I did think maybe sharing those with each other...
- Hubby just asked me if I was still wanting a divorce and going to leave. I told him yes. He is angry and again tries all the same reasons for me to stay. Inside, I am more resolved and calmer than I have ever been. I am trying like hell...
- I have been in an unhappy marriage for the last 10 of 15 years. I have been telling hubby that I wasn't happy.....tried to explain why. Once or twice he did try to be a bit more helpful ....but it would last about two days ....after that...it...
- Hello,My name is Kim. While I do love my veggies....I am an assistant produce manager. (thus the name. lol) I am 56, currently married 15 years (although the last 10 have been very unhappily) I struggled with this for a long time....for better or...
- I must give credit where credit is due. Gutted had a great idea to share our resolutions.I believe there is always something we can do (or try to do) to improve ourselves and our relationships. I have come to see that all I have experienced has...
- They always say you want what you can't have. For me, it has been so very long.....I am married for 15 years (but for more than the last 10, hubby will no longer touch me....except for an occasionalpeck here or there) In our "marriage" there is...
- To all out there....... whatever your circumstances....whether alone...or with others counting on you (while you struggle to hang on yourself)...or with others who truly love, encourage and cherish you or those kind, dutiful children who do...
- I think Julia Roberts summed it up well in Pretty Woman...."Why is it always so much easier to believe the bad stuff?" Over the years, I have come a long way. Through counseling, contact with others who also struggled through similar (and sometimes...
- Growing up in a dysfunctional family, I had hopes of turning all the chaos around. Over the years (because of different circumstances) I would wind up in counseling (or therapy). Each time, I would come away with a better understanding of another...
- Is i even possible?I am a very curious, honest, trusting person. I have opened up to quite a few people on here. Lately though I reach out, I haven't heard from many...leaving me with silence (with the exception of hubby who is quite good at...
- I have spent the last 10 of 15 year marriage with virtually no affection or physical touch. I am mid50s now. Followed hubbies cue...tried shutting down going through the motions. He is content. This whole thing has caused a big issue with my...
- Take 1 self-respecting,self-loving individual........add another of the same........Voila! A new friend has been very kind and helpful to me. He has reminded me that i need to first come to accept and love myself before i should expect...
- I have been told I have my head in the clouds...That i have unrealistic expectations of a prince coming to carry me off into the sunset and treat me as a princess. I am here to tell you, as much as I would love that, that story is for the little...
- I finally gathered up enough courage to tell my husband how I have been feeling. I did tell him i think it is time for divorce. I now have this incredible guilt eating away at me. that is replacing the empty ache of all that I have been...
- Feeling very guilty for wanting more. In two weeks it will be our 15 year anniversary. For the last 10 I have had very little affection and no physical touch. I have worked full time then come home to do all around the...