veggiequeen
Status: moving forward and appreciating what is all around me .
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- I am embarrassed and ashamed to admit I have NEVER hit the big O. I was brought up to be ashamed of my body and guilty for even thinking about sex. It is only recently that I have finally overcome all the hang ups and shame I used to associate...
- Months ago I tried to start FANTASYLAND. I was hoping that others would open up and ask or tell whatever....as well as share some juicy fantasies. There were some very interested to check what was there...but I was the only one brave enough to...
- Hello. There are just a few of us around and we were wondering if anyone else is out there. it seems some vent and disappear. Just curious if others are still here struggling in silence.... or if all gave up and disappeared (or came up with a...
- There are many times on here as I do hear of others who are staying strong... still loving who they did marry and realizing every lttle thing they do still have in their lives together. As I read these, I do feel guilty as i did not chose to stay...
- i did just comment on a post by another of pleasing one's spouse. For most of my life, I would feel guilt and shame for even thinking about sex or any kind of physical touch. (That is how I was brought up) As a result, I got a very late start at...
- But that is about it these days. I am at the point of having sex on the brain most days lately. I was hoping others would share their fantasies too, but noone is brave enough . By now, you all know I am way too curious and outspoken and since...
- You have to excuse me. I am incredibly curious. I was reminded of the "five minute fly" by by someone else in SEXLESS MARRIAGE . Over there..... there are a few who may occasionally get that , but little else. (I have been even more deprived...
- A good friend did recently ask me what I am looking for in a man. Honestly, I have come to discover some things that I never did have with nsetbx. (That list is LENGTHY!) Also from many I have shared with, I would come to realize that much of...
- Recently I again approached the stbx with a decent proposal from the attorney and myself. Again, he shot me down. Now, suddenly, after more than 10 years of everything lacking (including communication) he has decided to open up and wants me to...
- I have been in this group forever, but most who did come here realized it wasn't exactly hopping...so they left. I was excited (not because you all were suffering too, but because there were others to chat with going through some of the same...
- I have finally scheduled my next appt with my attorney to finally get the proverbial ball rolling. I realize this doesn't sound like a big deal, but for anybody who knows me and how I have gone back and forth over this , they know it is progress. i...
- To all here whether we are all alone (but wanting desperately to be in a happy , healthy relationship), or in an unfulfilling relationship (wishing things were a bit better) or if you are lucky enough to already be in that happy relationship...
- To all of us out here who are far far away from where we so want to be on this romantic celebrated day of "love" To me, it does feel more like a "sentence" while others are deleriously happy with the one they love, I am still here....doing way too...
- Perfect Valentine's Day for me would be if I was on a plane to meet and spend some time with a very special friend who i have gotten to know online. He is a zillion miles away, but when the two of us do chat he is the only person I have been able to...
- I have observed and do realize..... my cup is very empty. What I do need is suggestions as to how to fill it back up?As far as doing things tomake me feel better about myself... I do continue to talk, greet and open up to others (especially those...