veggiequeen
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- I have been married for 16 years. The LAST 11 with no affection or physical touch (except an occasional peck here and there) Before, if we were lucky we had sex maybe 3 times a month. Even then, he had little desire and things weren't that great. To...
- I was just thinking and wondering (Forgive me, I am alot bolder and more curious these days) When there still was a "sex life"... what was the norm? Also, after so long, what would you want now?For me, it was never much to begin with. (Even...
- Hello. I am new to the group. I have always considered myself a warm, caring person and do try to do and care for others. I have been married 16 years, but the last 11 have been with no affection or physical touch, miniscule communication, and...
- Don't know if anyone would be interested in this one, but it is one I did come up with myself. I took it to test on coworkers and now it has become a favorite that is often requested, The best part is.... it is a no bake.... just whip together...
- Hello fellow foodies! I was just thinking of all the types of deviled eggs. Most in my family do gobbble them up at get togethers, but I was trying to remember different twists I have seen over time? There is the traditional with miracle whip/...
- As I do try to be polite and mingle, I cannot help but notice a tall, handsome gentleman I haven't seen before. He looks to be as uncomfortable as i am, but with a very warm smile and the most amazing eyes, he hides it rather well. (I do have to...
- The problem--- a spouse who can (and does) go on every day with no thought or desire for it. Content just going through the days together-- miniscule communication, even less help, no affection and no physical touch. (Well, now he does try to...
- The stereo is cranked up, I've increased the speed and incline on my bike and I am working up quite a sweat. (I do have a secret weapon to help me just glide right through the time. I just close my eyes and imagine you here with me.smiling,...
- I was just thinking... wondering? For some of us it has been sooo very long, but if we think back... what is it that we do miss the most?Also, was there ever something you absolutely craved but they would never do for you? Did you ever ask them to...
- Warm water is streaming over me. Rinsing the days grime and (thanks to a very powerful new showerhead) gently massaging every inch of my body. I do scrub the makeup off. As I close my eyes and do go for the shampoo I do suddenly feel a tall...
- Another day and I am getting little done. Wasting too much time thinking.... If I kept busier like I intended, this wouldn't be an issue. I want desperately to feel something again. God, I miss sex. :(
- I am an ACOA and am currently still in my marriage of almost 16 years. About 2 1/2 years ago I did have a sudden realization that I did want and need more. (For close to 11 years now, I went with miniscule amounts of communication, no affection, and...
- I am always trying to escape to a secluded beach or cabin. . . far away from everyone. just me, my toys, maybe the dog and an occasional visitor. I have rethunk that equation. In one of my posts, someone mentioned a sybian. Naturally, me being...
- I was just curious--- Several others have gotten me thinking of things I never before gave much thought of. Now I do realize what exactly I do want... and I have to admit, I would like it all (as probably most of us do)I want to someday find...
- I am curious... for those of us in sexless marriages.... There are many who have kids and say all else in their marriage is very good. But are denied sex ( for one reason or another) If there was an unstated , unwritten understanding that if you...