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- With the holidays rapidly approaching, I've strated thinking about how to plan for and weather them.My Ex and I have children together, but only one under 23. He is 12. I assume I need to get a gift from him to my Ex for him to give her, but have...
- So, my Ex got back from vacationing at my former timeshare in NH, and she brought her 2 1/2 month new guy with her and slept with him - displacing my 11 yo son who usually sleeps on the sofa in the bedroom with her on vacation, and her was scared,...
- My Ex just got back from a week in NH at what used to be my time share. I realized she might bring her new guy, and I didn't want to know. I've been working hard to redirect my thoughts around things like that and focus on the future.However, she...
- I was watching an episode of Stargate SG-1 with my son tonight when one of the characters made a statement that resonated with me. I hope, with help, to take it to heart."You can't second-guess yourself. You can't remake the past, so you must...
- I'm still hurting over my divorce and failed reconciliation, and I've been stuck, so I'm afraid I'm not whole or that this baggage would be unfair to bring into a relationship. I've felt I need to heal before dating, plus it has been so long I'm...
- So as not to hijack someone else's topic, I'm starting a new thread.I got a text Saturday from my Ex inviting me to "join us for the traditional Father's Day cookout? Usual steaks" After agonizing over it, I respectfully declined. I wanted to...
- I'm struggling with obsessive thoughts about my Ex-w and her new man. We were back together intimately in May, and the next day she decided to start dating her new man and break it off with me. The thoughts are painful, especially since they...
- I have a complicated jumble of emotions that I'm trying to figure out. Now that my Ex is instantly dating her new guy, she has the freedom to see him any time she wants because the two older girls are at the house to watch my son.I had an invite to...
- Those of you who have read my posts, formerly under a different screen name, know how painful the past few weeks have been for me. In two weeks, going from "I love you" and finally making love again after a year of reconciling, to "I'm going on a...
- Some of you have seen my prior posts. In essence, I tried to reconcile with my ex and we did wonderfully up until we made love earlier this month. She then stopped coming over and 10 days later announced she was going to start dating and we are...
- I want to learn and grow and not repeat whatever mistakes caused my wife to leave me. I have some general idea of some things I may have done wrong, but I'd like to understand better.Question: Is it safe or advisable to email her and ask her so I...
- I can't believe I did this to myself again.After my divorce in April 2014, my ex and I got back together in a way last year, then she dumped me again at Christmas. I was devastated as I had thought we were making great progress reconciling, and she...
- Now that my wife divorced me, I decided to sell my time share week in NH. It is in the mountains and is in the fall foliage season. It is beautiful there. We used to enjoy the scenery and hike to all the waterfalls, etc. I bought it before I met...
- FWB is an interesting concept. I've always been faithful to my wife, but now that she has left me, I'm unsure of many things. I am hurting and not ready for another relationship. I'm also not sure I want one as I don't want to risk this kind of...
- I've been trying to be limited contact - only contact coordinating about my children. I don't check her site and don't stalk her, but it seems we belong to a couple of the same Facebook groups and I got a notice that she commented on a post that I...