MontgomeryDad
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Horrible
- wow. Mediation went every bit as poorly as I thought it would, and worse. Bottom line, the mediator basically said because my wife lives closer to work and works shorter hours, she will probably wind up with primary custody. I literally sobbed at...
- Well, another awful day. We got into it again this morning. She said, in no uncertain terms, that we are over. Told me her therapist told her she needs to be frank with me. Can't be more frank than that. Told me she thought this was best for the...
- So, last night, my wife came to me and told me that my brother told his son (my nephew) that her and I were getting a divorce. And she was upset by this. I let it slide at first, but then asked her what did he say that was incorrect. She started to...
- i literally hate coming here every day to vent because I feel like i'm becoming a big whiny baby. Today has been just awful, which coincides with pretty much every day of the last two months. My wife comes home from holiday shopping for the kids and...
- Ok, here's where I'm at right now. The boundaries have been pretty much set by the two of us for as long as we live in the same house together. First day of these boundaries, it actually went much better than I had thought it would. No fights, no...
- So, I'm out drinking. Heavily. Today was the shittiest of days. Literally. Cried at work. Multiple battles with the wife. The last argument we got into was the worst. Found something of hers that made me question she had done previously. Called her...
- So much awfulness today. First, she tells me, after crying to me about how she would never, ever take one penny of my mom's inheritance, that now she believes she deserves half. Then I had an awful 3 hour commute home. When I get home, she tells me...
- Loojs like it's been a bad day for a lot of us. I'm just about at the point where I can't take much more disappointment. So many people have promised different things that just don't come true, including my wife. I find myself being way over...
- So, as we all know, we have good days and we have bad days. Today, I am having a really bad day. I feel overwhelmed with grief, and loneliness. I think part of it is I keep expecting to wake out of this nightmare, that she'll call or text and let me...
- So we had it out a little this morning, and she finally came out and said divorce is her end game. She had been holding off on saying that before, saying she hadn't thought that far ahead. But now that's over and done. Sitting here wondering how it...
- So today, my wife calls me to talk about Christmas gifts for the boys. No big deal, but then she starts talking about how she knows she consulted an attorney, but she was thinking about it, and would prefer if I don't consult with mine, and we just...
- Yesterday was a totally confusing day, both good and bad. I randomly ran into a woman I used to hook up with in college. She was in the same store I was in and I had not seen her in about 20 years. She lives about five minutes away, and is single....
- i know how hard the holidays can be and I know we are all hurting so very much. I am truly thankful for all of the support I have found here. I hope you all have a wonderful Thanksgiving with your loved ones. Trying to stay happy even though my...
- So, things are continuing to spiral out of control. On Saturday, at our 6 year old's soccer game, my wife thought it would be a good time to get into a loud and heated (both on her part) argument with me. I tried walking away twice, and she followed...
- Coukdn't handle being in the house with her any more tonight. Told her I was going out. She doesn't even care enough to ask where I was going or who I was meeting. 3/4 of the way to completely being drunk. Hitting rock bottom is not nearly as fun as...