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- Thought I'd touch base with this group... haven't been here for a few years but it was a huge support to me back in 2009-10. Doesn't look very active but... encountered my h online surfing on Sunday right after we had a fantastic day together and...
- Hi all. Haven't been here in awhile but wanted to give An update. Partly havnt been here cause we turned off our Internet. H couldnt handle it. Sending from phone so sorry about typing. This is the first day I have considerd divorce. We've been...
- Hi all. Haven't been here in awhile but wanted to give An update. Partly havnt been here cause we turned off our Internet. H couldnt handle it. Sending from phone so sorry about typing. This is the first day I have considerd divorce. We've been...
- A friend of a friend is looking for treatment in the midwest. I don't have the exact state, just know the search includes midwest area. She is wondering if anyone knows about programs or treatment centers for women who are addicted to sex because...
- Love to hear thoughts on this idea my therapist tossed out the other day. I said I'm still having trouble reacting the moment I know my h is surfing porn. I come home and know things don't feel right in the room and can see it on his face that he...
- I lost my serenity yesterday. Man, I wanted to start the new year off right and talk with my h from a grounded space. I knew i was in a crazy-making place and so just stayed silent...knowing it was the worst time to try to talk. but h kept...
- God bless Elizabeth Edwards. A woman I have long admired, and taken inspiration from her class and integrity under difficult circumstances. She will be missed!http://www.cnn.com/2010/POLITICS/12/06/elizabeth.edwards.obit/index.html?hpt=T1
- Okay so i think I made a mistake at a Halloween party last month. As I may have shared here, I face some issues with transgenderism. I don't think of myself as lesbian, because I am attracted to men. It is much more of a gender identity/gender...
- If someone says to a SA "I no longer judge you", what does that mean to you? How does a spouses' judgement or non-judgement manifest itself? I think I have experienced feeling both towards my h. Would love to hear thoughts on this...
- My h and I have been going to couples counseling sessions for about 6 weeks now. We are going to a therapist who was recommended to me by a few different women in my s-anon group. The fact that we finally found a therapist we both feel comfortable...
- I feel fortunate to have support from so many places: churchmeditation retreatsDSa great therapist for mebooks on SAa different great therapist for ussponsor from s-anons-anon meetings....except I haven't been to meetings in awhile. They feel...
- A topic that I know is going to be on the table at our next couples therapy/addiction session is if I will put up with my h viewing a little bit of porn in the house if he can make 100% sure it is never around me or my son. I do not feel this is...
- Please keep me in your prayers tomorrow. I am going to ask my h to move out. He has had some big slips backwards lately and is refusing to get into recovery. I am going to keep it simple and let him know I have never been more serious about...
- I belong to three groups on DS. One is Spouses of Sexual Addicts because my husband is a porn and sex addict. I have always thought of these groups and this transgender group as completely separate worlds, with nothing to do with each other. But...
- I'm wondering if I find something that may or may not be a sign of relapse, how do I bring it up to my h? If I have a concern and bring it to him, he gets angry that I doubt or mistrust him when all he has done for 9 months is demonstrate that he...