MorganTX
Status: "Divorce is what you choose when things are getting worse faster than you can lower your expectations" - Carrie Fisher
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- My H is SLA. I attend cosa mtgs and work hard at it. After three years, it's still hard for me to believe that these other girls meant nothing to him, some of them he would even say I love you to. He says it was all part of the fog of addiction. We...
- This isnt really a rebuilding topic - but this was the board I most frequented on DS and I wanted to post an update - hope you don't mind.Two years ago today - my world was shattered. The unthinkable became my reality. My precious sweet loving...
- I need to get divorced but we are seriously broke. There are no assets to divide, only debt. We have 3 kids and live in Texas.He is not going to fight with me about anything - we have deicded custody, etc.What's the cheapest way to get...
- I am a BW but I'm not year to make trouble - I have a question, something I struggle with, and I'm hoping you guys can give me some insight.When you start a relationship with a MM or MW (assuming you knew they were M), and you know that they are...
- If marriage is legally binding, and fidelity is a component of the contract, then why shouldn't infidelity be a crime?I know that it is in other parts of the world.Think about it, if I accidentally hit somebody with my car and injure or kill them, I...
- Hi all -I have been on the infidelity/rebuilding boards for awhile - but now I am getting a divorce and would love to get some advice from people further down the road.My H got another place to live and moved out this weekend - so this is really my...
- After all this, after staying with him after he broke my heart, after so much therapy and effort and everything ON MY PART. He decides that it's just too much work and he can't deal and he broke it and it can never be the same since he broke it, so...
- I'm sorry I haven't really been posting. I have just been really really sad. My husband has decided to leave me, he is "just tired of all this" and "doesn't believe it's fixable". He says he feels like it will "never really go away" and since he...
- This seems to pretty accurately describe my H's OW and her broken psyche. Just curious if anyone else recognizes their OW in this description from Debbie Ford's book:The seductress is after one thing and one thing only - to make herself feel better...
- Today is the one year anniversary of my mini-day. The day I saw a bunch of calls in his phone to the same girl - a girl I had never heard of. He lied a million lies - but even just the idea that he would lie to me about just calling someone was so...
- I won't be getting a valentine - but if I was...I'd love something like this. (I didn't write it)I'm sorry for the things I say that make you mad,cry and sometimes break your heart. I'm sorry for the things I do that make you feel like I don't love...
- I keep coming back to this place - where I realize how much my daily gratitude helps me in all of this. I'm going to post just a few for today -I hope others will add theirs to inspire all of us.Things I am grateful for right now:1. Lovely...
- So he has somehow decided that he gets to make the rules of "moving forward" and he has declared to me that "he's not going to talk about it"And I said, "So, if I have a question about the affair, something I need to understand to move forward, you...
- Yorick makes the excellent point that only each of us can answer the tough questions for ourselves. Here are mine - maybe some of you will share yours.How could he love me and still do this to me?How will I ever feel loved again by someone who hurt...
- Just wanted to give you all a quick update and I will journal later. We managed to have a good weekend this weekend - good talks, being supportive for each other, each of us working on our own stuff, loving with each other, and even some laughs.I...