Rebuilding Marriage After Infidelity Community Group
A community for those who have been through the heartbreak of infidelity and decided to stay with their partner and try to re-build the relationship.
I keep coming back to this place - where I realize how much my daily gratitude helps me in all of this. I'm going to post just a few for today -I hope others will add theirs to inspire all of us.
Things I am grateful for right now:
1. Lovely breakfast with my son
2. Watching Nadal play tennis
3. It's friday - woo hoo
4. Proud of all my hard work at recovery
5. Just re-blonded my dark roots :o)
Things I am grateful for right now:
1. Lovely breakfast with my son
2. Watching Nadal play tennis
3. It's friday - woo hoo
4. Proud of all my hard work at recovery
5. Just re-blonded my dark roots :o)
2. """ that my H gave me a second chance and things are going well.
2. """ for my wonderful family and friends & our health
3. """ I have a job
4. """ The support I get from DS
5. """ Morgan's #3 - TGIF!!!
2.I am blessed with a beautiful family(Ray,Celestine,Annalisa,RayIII).
3.I get to go home after work and hug my little kids and H.
4.I learned to love again, but this time its more intense.
5.We are healthy and well taken care of...thank God!
6.My relationship with the Lord is growing I can actually feel peace again and I'm able to have compassion and love for others. That took some time. whooo more than 2yrs.
7.I'm open to learn and teach.
8.I stopped crawling on the floor and started walking forward in life and my marriage.
9.I realize how haughty I was before and that helps me stay humble.
Health, family, friends!
1. My home- when so many people are losing theirs
2.The cup of coffee I am drinking right now
3. my Family (should of been 2 but this coffee is good! )
4.All of my friends here That have pulled me threw or made me laugh when I didn't think I could
5.God who has held me up when I could hold myself up
2 My grand kids
3 The internet
4 Music
5 Heat on a cold day
6 Pets
7 Weekends
8 DS and all my friends here
9 Fun emails
10 Cell phones and several calls from my H today
2. The ability to forgive and move forward. To accept what is in the past, and to make a daily decision to leave it there.
3. A husband who works hard every day at a very stressful job.
4. A husband who made a terrible mistake, but who recognized it and stopped the madness.
5. This board.
6. A decent house and cars, and a frig full of food.
7. My 1st Grandson, who will be 1 year old on the 12th of February. My dad's birthday...I miss you dad.
8. The people in my life who have been there, or will be there if/when I need them.
9. Self-forgiveness, and God's Grace.
2. My husband and all the amazing changes I have seen in him
3. All the great people in this support group and your willingness to share your stories, insight, and wisdom
4. The sun shining
5. I am most grateful to God and all the wonderous blessings he has brought into my life. Also for the strength he gives me each day and the hope for a new beginning.
2. All the amazing support I get at DS
3. It's the weekend!
4. My super comfy bed that I love
5. A long hot bath
6. The new book I'm reading "Broken Open"
7. My ipod - because music makes my heart sing
2. Watching my son play basketball
3. Making yummy pancakes
2. Hugs and snuggles with my kids
3. Had a fun saturday night playing poker
1. I'm thinking how much worse it would have been if my husband had left me for the other woman.
2. I'm thankful that he realized the error of his ways and decided to take his lumps and stay and work on the marriage.
3. I'm also thankful that I can still love him. This came close to destroying my love but it survived.
4. I'm thankful for everything I have learned since this whole mess started.
5. I'm thankful that the dark clouds have lifted mostly and I can see blue sky sometimes.
1. Grateful to still be breathing
2. Grateful that today is a new day
3. Grateful for so much support here at DS
Grateful to wake up every morning
Grateful to know that my future is going to get better, one way or another
Grateful for your support and giving me ways to look at a horrible situation
Grateful that I have had a good life compared to others.
Grateful that I am a NICE person.