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Status: Who should I fight more - my head (to leave) or my heart (to stay)
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- AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH Sorry for starting with a scream, but that seems reasonable right nowSo I have a pension, a pretty good one too. I have been paying into it for 11 yrs now.My stbx is now asking for my pension - wth?!??? He signed a...
- Hello - I don't honestly think I need advice, because my brain tells me I am right, but my heart yearns for more...I have twin 2.5 y/o girls. 2 weeks ago, one daughter was in the hospital for a lung infection and then this past weekend the other...
- Does it ever stop.....my 2 year olds were asking / crying for daddy.He isn't here, he wont be here - he isn't the daddy you need babies and I am sorry for that but please stop crying for him...My heart hurts when I hear this and I don't know how to...
- I am very saddened today to know that my STBX is capable of domestic assault. I have always known he has a temper when it came to the children but it has never turned on me (in fact, when he was upset he would simply not talk to me and that was all...
- Hello All,So I am leaving my husband because he is a bad father! I do not say that with ease either - he really is making bad choices, and I can't accept them. We have been married / together for almost 10 years, known each other for almost 20. I...
- Hey all - I just want to know your thoughts on this? I saw in my finace's email a registration for a dating website. It's a meet local people and is full of nude pics.I confronted him on him registering for it and he told me it was for the amateur...
- Hi All,Long time since I've been here, thought I was doing good, but apparently - I've PLATEAU'd!.The thing is, I WAS doing really good at this whole weight loss thing, but then it stopped. And the worse part about that is that I havent stopped...
- I don't know for sure if he cheated, I'm not sure when the marriage really broke down - but either way it hurt, and it hurt bad.That was almost 2 yrs ago at christmas. Honestly, I am over him, over the failed marriage. I am truly happy about the...
- So after a divorce, most of us hope to move forward with love and relationships...or at least that was my intention.After a year of being single, I found my high school sweetheart (the story is just like the notebook, only better cause it's...
- Haven't been to the site in a while, I thought I had everything figured out. I really did. You guys had helped me more than you'd ever know in those first few months after my seperation, and really helped me come out of it on top.However, in the...
- Hi All, a few weeks ago I posted about finding that 'what if' person. Thank you all for your comments and support. I had my reunion with him, and it was fantastic, and I mean sweep me off my feet fantastic.However, as I drove away...I started to...
- That 'what if' person - how I would describe this person is he or she is someone from your past who's memory always makes you wondering what could have happened....So - here's my discussion topic - if you had the chance to start again with that what...
- I always thought that I had a good amount of will power. And, I guess I do - what I think I am missing is the stopping button.Anyone else feel this way? I can make great choices for a long time, but if I make the slighest bad choice, then...
- Hi - In order to safely lose weight, is there some equation you can use to figure out:how many calories you burn in a day?how many calories must you burn to shed a pound?how many calories a day does a body need to survive?how many calories a day...
- Hi - I am sorry to ask, but can I know what people's opinions of 'what consistutes a binge'? I see people use the term all the time, I technically know what it means, but I just wanted to know from others what / how they viewed a binge.