bambam
Status: Who should I fight more - my head (to leave) or my heart (to stay)
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- Can anyone answer me this - Would you go to a strip club to pick up someone of the same sex? We all know that unless you pay for it, it is highly unlikely that you will have any play at a strip club BUT what about the other people in the...
- I just want to know, and I know this sounds strange, but my girlfriends keep telling me their right and I need to face the truth.I was married for 5 years, and now we are spearated and will be divorcing the first opportunity we have. My stbx was...
- My stbx claims that he only got involved with me and married me because of codependent issues. Fine - I can deal with this.BUT after doing some reading on the topic, and now that we are separated, I can't for the life of me understand his new...
- I guess I just want to know if any of you have felt this way...If you were cheated on, have you ever wanted to return that behaviour and see what it is like to be with a married person?A girlfriend of mine was cheated on and she says she can't...
- I know that most of us have said that we have lost weight over these problems we have dealing with divorce / separation.I am just wondering about how MUCH everyone has lost (weight wise). I seem to be taking a lot of slack from people around me -...
- Wow - tears are filling my eyes even as I try to write this...Today is my last day in MY HOUSE. I take the keys for my new apartment tomorrow. I was all ready for the move, and yet on my way to work today, it hit me. This is the end - the very...
- Yesterday, I get home from an AMAZING weekend with the girls and I had so much fun it was hard to believe that any of the bad stuff had happened over the past few months...so I get out of the shower and reach for my towel. Hmmmm, not there. So I...
- Okay people - I need to ask - how many of you think that this is vengeful?When me and my stbx got together, he showed me a book that his father had - one that was out of print and very rare. He made a comment about 'the woman I marry will find me a...
- Right now I am fuming mad....I thought that the ex and I were being civil and that dealing with the different aspects of our relationship break up were going smoothly until now...My ex owed money to me for the house and bills. He wrote me a check...
- During the relationship, I was blind, stupid even - didn't see the faults that were clearly in front on us!Now that it is over, I can see how wrong it was. I know now that it was a toxic environment for both of us and the only way for either of us...
- I am starting to pack up my house to move and there are so many pictures around with the two of us. I don't want to throw them out, but can't stand to look at them. What have you guys done with them?? I guess this also includes the wedding...
- I decided to quit toking almost 3 months ago after a break up with the stbx. I thought that showing him I could quit would prove that I could change. It didn't work and now we are split up! (it's actually good news, that's not the issue)However,...
- I decided to quit toking almost 3 months ago after a break up with the stbx. I thought that showing him I could quit would prove that I could change. It didn't work and now we are split up! (it's actually good news, that's not the issue)However,...
- I decided to quit toking almost 3 months ago after a break up with the stbx. I thought that showing him I could quit would prove that I could change. It didn't work and now we are split up! (it's actually good news, that's not the issue)However,...
- I just found out, after 7 1/2 years of being with my SO, that he has severe codependency issues! Or so he yelled at me in our last counseling session. Maybe I am blind, maybe I am naive, but I didn't see that issue at all! I've done some reading...