Ya........no.
NO need to register to view amateur porn. I can think of a site right now specifically to view amateur porn, no profile necessary.

That's what I thought, and when I pointed that out - he said 'i guess you know more about the site than I do'.

I replied with 'i guess so, i also know how big an issue it is, just have to determine impact now'.

And thats what i have to do - but wow - it's hard, always is though, eh?

he's full of it. No one registers for those things just for some pictures. You can get those anywhere. I'd monitor the situation if I were you but don't tell him you are.

yes check and find out his username that he used to register and see if it comes up in a google search, also look at the more popular dating sites online. People are creatures of habit, they usually use the same name for all sites, like passwords. Once you have one u usually have it all

yep...listen to ladyrowen... its a dating site...lots of those out there and guess what? Many of the women are actually prostitutes!!

sounds like he's trying to use that porn thing as an excuse to find someone else. not to jump to conclusions but thats what it seems like. watch him here on out . if you want to check out signs of a cheating spouse/boyfriend here's a helpful site.good luck&god bless!

http://www.womansdivorce.com/cheating-husband.html

I would be open and honest with him on how it makes you feel that he registered for the site. You're about to make a huge commitment to this man and he to you, you need to both be open and honest. There may be other underlying issues that you should know about before getting married as well. I come from a broken marriage that started to break because my husband stopped having sex with me. Whenever I asked him about it, he said his libido had dropped. Years later I found out he had an addiction to porn, chat rooms and I found emails from other women with naked pictures. Porn isn't good either. It ruined the way he saw me, women and our marriage. Good luck to you. My best advice is to be honest, ask questions and push him to talk to you. If you don't do it now, you may find yourself wishing you had after you're married!

the only reason to register is to inetarct with other people..i am sorry...i know just how you feel...many do...damn internet has made all this so much worse...not that there wasn't a problem with them before but it is leading cause of divorce now...and all you need for evidence in court is him on that website....take care of yourself and educate yourself and get help for you...wish you the best...

I call B*llsh*t on that excuse! You don't need to register for a DATING site if you want to get free internet porn. You register for a DATING site if you want dates (read sex). If he wanted porn, all he had to do is google porn and he'd get porn, lots and lots and lots of it, free. Registering for the DATING site meant he's already done the internet porn fantasy thing and now he's ready to, if not already has, moved onto living out his porn fantasies with real people.

It is horrible, I know, but at least you found out now rather than after you were married. I'm so sorry (((bambam))).

P.S. "That's what I thought, and when I pointed that out - he said 'i guess you know more about the site than I do'"

Classic blameshifting by him. Classic. Blaming you when they are caught red handed in their poor judgment and character ----Don't fall for that one either.

Stay strong. Though again, so sorry. Xena.

My H was doing that too, found out he had signed up for several dating sites... Of course, he was telling me, "I just critique their pictures, it's art, not porn and I'm not trying to hook up with any of them..."

a few months later, he was seeing someone he met on ASHLEYMADISON.COM....