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- The X's B/F broke off their 1 1/2 yr. relationship and now she is proceeding to make my life miserable by berating me for things that happened 30 yrs. ago to how I'm raising our son who lives with me. Last night I hung up the phone because I refused...
- She walked out 1 1/2 yrs. ago, not even looking back on me or the kids. She said she wanted to live her life, only for us to discover that she had a B/F prior to leaving. Recently she told me that she wants the children's items from their times...
- As I look back over the past 17 months, I've had the opportunity to reflect on what made me a survivor and not a victim or a fatality. In the inital stages of my divorce I came to the realization that there was little chance that I was going to make...
- Today I received a surprising email from person that attended a previous divorce support group with me. In her message, she stated that she was going to reconcile with her X who had an affair 1 1/2 yrs ago. What surprised me is, this woman is...
- For those of us that have been "left behind", I've always questioned if the ones that left us ever had moments of regret. When they're all alone, do you think they question their decision? The reason I address this thought is that if a marriage has...
- The other day someone mentioned P.O.F (Plenty of Fish)as a potential on-line dating site. So I registered and did a search of women in my local area. I have to say, there were some strange women on that site. I'm not sure if it's just my local area...
- If you were to fall in love (Not Lust), with another person would you pursue marriage or a committed relationship without the legalities of marriage? I have no doubt that many of us on DS After Twenty Years have at one time contemplated the value of...
- As I look back over this last year, I've come to realize how easy it is for many of us to use a rebound relationship as a method of medicating through a divorce. I recall when my former spouse walked out of our 29+ year marriage, I had this...
- Having experienced a long term marriage and being a little more mature (older) I have contemplated if sometime in the future the value of entering into another round of marriage. For me personally at my age it seems more sensible to be committed to...
- I was notified by my X that shes moving into her townhouse Friday, and requested that I gather all of her stuff from my house so she could pick it up.As I was going through 29 yrs. of stuff, I couldnt help but have this feeling that I was packing...
- This was the question that I have recently contemplated, however why should I even care, because she is now the past. Personally I can say that I could never live with myself if I walked away from my spouse & children in exchange for someone else to...
- For the past 10 months I have been totally consumed by the devastation of this divorce and how easy it was for her to just walk away into the arms of someone else. Im also amazed at how I have allowed this person to consume my mind 24/7. Not only...
- In our group we share a common association, which is relationship/marriage that existed over 20 yrs. I have always wondered if they (Xs) had ever considered the hurt and devastation they created when they decided to walk away from the relationship...
- As she walked out, I begged her to consider a temp. separation to reconcile any concerns with our 29 yr relationship. I told her that she had no comprehension that a divorce is like a hurricane with no one leaving unscathed. If after a divorce you...
- Do any of your walk-away Xs, get angry with you, I mean really angry? I use the term walk-away because she had the desire to leave me and the kids for a BF and quote live her life. Recently I discovered through angry phone messages and emails my X...