Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
For the past 10 months I have been totally consumed by the devastation of this divorce and how easy it was for her to just walk away into the arms of someone else. Im also amazed at how I have allowed this person to consume my mind 24/7. Not only that but it has also affected my job, children, and literally worn me down. In all reality I gave this person who I despised the most the power to control my thinking, is this not insane. Why do we allow this to happen, when we know that its total self-destruction? Today Im using this awareness as the first step to divorce recovery, and telling myself, enough is enough, no more!
It does take time and everyone has their own time-table of healing.
It is codependency, when we allow someone else's choices or actions control our self, our well-being, our piece of mind. Yes, even our spouse or our children.
Forgive me, but I have another book I recommend highly. It's called "Language of Letting Go" by Melody Beattie. It will explain why you handled your past issues a certain way and it will enlighten you to such better ways to deal with anyone anywhere in this world. You will suddenly feel so free.
hugs