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- ...of what will happen if the spouse finds out that we use DS?I know I am. No telling what will happen. I've tried keeping a journal in the past, but he always goes through my stuff, finds it, and reads it. Then he tells me that everything I write...
- I recently read the post about the narcissistic abuser, and so many of the qualities described my husband to the letter. I constantly feel like I'm walking on eggshells around him. I'm afraid to tell him things (like I received approval from my...
- I'm new to this group, and recently diagnosed with ADHD. My doctor started me on 10mg of Adderall XR. I started taking it yesterday, and have had a nagging headache. Did anyone else expect this side effect, and how long did the headaches last? ...
- OK... I just replied to the post about "did anyone tell their family" and wanted to add to it a bit. Yes, when I found out about the affair, I did tell people. I was in a state of complete shock. I was at work when I got the phone call from OW's...
- ...and I am freaking out. I am just a bundle of nerves. I am so scared, but I don't really know of what. Maybe of the reality of being alone (not that it's really all that different now). What should I expect?What questions should I ask?When do I...
- So, many of you know that I discovered this week that my H's affair was continuing; they were just being much more secretive about it and lying to their spouses about it. I decided that I've had enough and I've got an appointment set up to see an...
- I was given some information yesterday that if you have sex with your spouse after finding out about the affair that in the eyes of the court you have reconciled. Is this for real? Anyone?
- Well, I got a message today from OW's H, asking me to call him because he had something for me. So, freaking out, I called him. He dropped the bomb on me. He said that the two of them (My H and OW) have not stopped the affair and have continued...
- I've been reading a lot and hearing a lot about emotional affairs and I'm concerned. I've had a friend for several years who is a guy. I worked with both him and his girlfriend for 2-3 years. The two of them had mutual friends with me, adn we were...
- My husband continues to be very mean to me and attack my character at any chance he can get. He's been doing this for a LONG time now. Several years... Someone made the comment to me the other day that maybe he's doing this to push me away...
- I'm going to start by saying that I have no clue where to post this (this forum or the abuse forum), but here goes. My H has been working out and training for a few years and now races bicycles competetively. He's gotten REALLY lean and spends a...
- Question - when we say there is to be "no contact" with the other person, do you think that includes NOT looking at MySpace/Facebook profiles? Please share your opinion as I'm curious on this matter!
- I don't know if I have the story of how I discovered my H's affair posted elsewhere. I got a phone call at work on my private line from the OW's husband about 4 months ago, now. I still have no idea how he got my work number - it still scares me a...
- Well, it's a little more than 4 months after I found out about my H's affair. He was just awful to me during the affair (explosive anger, any little thing would set him off, verbally abusive in front of our 3 year old) and things haven't improved...
- I posted this in the parenting toddlers section, but wanted to post here, since there are mostly older kids and someone may have experienced this.At my son's daycare, they are talking about sizes (bigger, smaller, etc). He gets so upset when some...