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- This site has literally been a life safer for me. I have no doubt that the wonderful folks on here have also helped to expedite my healing process dramatically. I'm not there yet and certainly don't expect to be there for a little while...
- I found this on the divore/breakup group. Personally think it is very useful.http://archive.feedblitz.com/850672/~4666039/33782577/3696c09eb75aefcbefd3faef2044425bHope it works.
- Terribly dreams last night involving the ex. Won't go into detail. Its strange. I rarely dream of him, and even had that thought last night. Self-fulfilling prophecy, eh?A few tears when I woke up. And I wanted desperately to change that. ...
- Actually socialized today and had fun at it. What a concept. Without the ex. Me enjoying myself. Nice!I was thinking how cool would it be if we could all meet up? I know we exist in many different countries, but it would be fun if possible.I...
- Snooping on another site and confiscated this Probably has been posted before, but new folks might appreciate. .I personally find it very helpful. It dawned on me that even if he didn't abuse me he did not have "my back" and he certainly wasn't...
- Oh my goodness...so I'm getting ready for bed...going through the nightly routine...blah, blah, blah...and I have a thought. Thought was the next time I see the ex (if ever), he will ask me how I am doing. And my response will be, "Great, I am...
- Hi all,Having a rough day. Tomorrow marks an anniversary of sorts with the ex and I can't stop dwelling on him and what happened to cause end of our relationship. You know...that vicious circular thinking...that takes you all around the world and...
- This is a big issue for me. I've posted before about losing friends through my recent ordeal. Now I find myself purposefully letting go of a few. For instance, my old roommate from college. I texted her shortly after I left the ex. She...
- I think is was Liv that compared the process of overcoming/letting go of an abuser with a climb up the mountain. (Sorry if I got that wrong.)A lot of you wonderful folks know my time with the ex (at least the time he was really mean) was...
- There was a wedding at the farm yesterday. No doubt it was a beautiful occasion with many of my old friends in attendance. I also sure my ex was the ultimate host, charming and welcoming to all.I have said this before, sorry, but it just kills me...
- I was watching a reality tv show this morning and it got me thinking. A real estate agent was meeting with a gentleman to discuss houses that he and his wife were interested in. Towards the end of the conversation, the husband reminded the agent...
- I hate this feeling. Feeling like no one cares. Feeling like I could literally fall off the face of the earth and it would most likely take a week before someone actually noticed.I want to be strong enough on my own. Strong, secure and content...
- I am sure many of you have read this, but for those that haven't, here you go....http://www.heartless-bitches.com/rants/manipulator/emotional_abuse.shtmlMy ex was extremely covert in his behavior....this really help me see him for what he is.
- Yesterday marked the first day in two months that I didn't shed a tear. Like many of you who have been through and come out of this type of experience, with a little distance, I am starting to see the light. I am starting to remember more...
- I just realized today is my 6 year anniversary with my beautiful horse, Hailey.Thank god for her and my lovely dog, Violet. With them, a couple of good friends and the wonderful people on this board, I am going to get through this ugly chapter of...