notmyself1
Status: I just want some tenderness I don't NEED a man I want one, a partner, someone to just hold me.
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- I recall reading a thread on here about this. And I think it's important to bring up again. Especially since, myself included, I'm reading many stories of people feeling guilty, second guessing themselves and their decisions, and wavering back and...
- I'm at a loss. This morning my husband comes to talk again. Pleading, think about the kids, don't throw away the years, etc. then he said but IF things go in another direction can we please promise to be fair to each other financially. So I went w...
- Yesterday, my husband did it again. Continued to badger me, asking what else he could do to get things on track. I said, yet again, I asked that we put our marriage on hold until after the holidays, give me some space, and each continue w IC. That...
- I met with a 4th attorney today - yes I am a very thorough person :) I really just want to completely understand the divorce process, my rights, and what is the absolute best within reason, I can walk away with for me and my girls.He feels it will...
- I had a consult with my 3rd atty today ( my 4th and final consult w a diff atty tmr). I'm feeling very sad, overwhelmed and like im gonna wake uo and this all have been a bad dream... and yet a tiny bit looking forward to freedom. Freedom to make...
- Just an update, my marriage is very damaged and I am very disconnected from him. The cycles and patters he exhibits and continues to do - are draining and depressing and I feel I no longer have a partner in my marriage. I had gone to see an attorney...
- I have to say, between reading here and the support from my family and friends, I felt nervous, but confident in my decision to go see the attorney.Well, it was a mistake or should I say he made me feel like I was overreacting. I swear I walked out...
- So much has been going on lately at home. My husband and I have had a few instances/episodes and have talked endlessly even after Ive asked him to give me space. Ive even noticed something in our daughter, something she said to me, that made me...
- I am in limbo not wanting to discuss our marriage until January and lets just focus on the holidays and the kids. I have also done digging to inform myself of our finances and am planning on contacting the lawyer in January. I have days where I'm...
- I'd like to share something my IC suggested to me. I went in there today, a complete mess, ball of stress, mind racing in a million different directions. After I filled her in on my last few days, she said much of what you all told me. Which made me...
- This is long and disjointed. I'm curled up on the floor in my baby's room typing this on my phone. I hope someone reads it and tells me what to do. Gives me some advice. I'm so upset. I feel like I'm losing my mind. Husband saw his counselor...
- Im at a loss. Just a little recap - a few weeks ago I asked for space, husband didnt want to move out. Was afraid that we would end up divorced. Agreed to stay downstairs after the kids go to bed so I can have my space. That's doable during the...
- I'm having a tough day today. Had a long talk with my mom who feels so badly for what's going on. She just wants me to be happy and supports me 100% with whatever I decide to do. Along with my sister, who feels I should've left a year ago. She hates...
- So I have found an IC who specializes in abusive relationships. My mind is spinning from all my readings, findings, and realizations. I feel like my head is filled with a jumbled heap of info and not sure where to start. Any advice?
- The more I read on the tactics of abuse, it's so hard to wrap my head around it all. I'm realizing my husband has done many of the things I've read here and in the abuse books. My husband is realizing I am checked out and need my space. He keeps...