myblvdofdreams
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- Where is my husband tonight?Sleeping in a hospital room with his mistress as she is being treated for her kidneys shutting down... He has already been "taking care of her" for the last week because she has had a 103 fever, and vomitting but refused...
- I posted this on the Infidelity board, but thought you guys could give me help too... but sorry if some of you are reading twice.. I have been struggling with this lately. A year ago my husband and I bought a beautiful home that I love, and we made...
- I have been struggling with this lately. A year ago my husband and I bought a beautiful home that I love, and we made it a home. It has been my turtle shell these last eight months, a place of refuge and my turtle shell. I can cry in the shower,...
- I don't know how to explain my current state of being. First off, its been almost eight months since d day (I notice I round up, and my husband rounds down) for instance, D day was January 2nd, so with it being almost August 2nd, I say eight...
- Okay Okay, I know... off topic, but you guys are my friends and I need advice... So my weekend project is to redo my closet.... I got some inspiring little art from Kohls like "live your life" "follow your dreams" (sorry couldn't find DUMP THE...
- I am having a hard time trying to find my footing, and learning "how to be separated." I know that above statement probably sounds crazy,, umm, simple when you are separated from your spouse you don't spend time together, pretty cut and dry. right.....
- I know a lot of people don't advise to leave your house during an affair. My H and I bought our first home a year ago, and I love our home, but I fear that staying here is not something that I can continue to do. I don't think leaving the home...
- I just wanted to take a moment to introduct myself. I am new to the board, and looking for a support system. We have been in Texas for almost a year, just moved here from Washington, D.C. We have been married almost 10 years, we are both 28 years...
- You guys would be so proud of me! I just drafted a separation agreement for my husband and I. Basically I asked him to cover the mortgage payment (which the Army covers anyway) and I will pay for the rest of the house expenses, while I take...
- So I was upset today because my husband transferred money out of our joint account into his without asking. We have an agreement that when it is our joint money, we would always respect eachother and ask. It was only $30 but I know it was for him...
- So I have been implementing the 180, which has seemed to be working so far with my H. My question is, sometimes I just want to sit him down and say, look, I feel like this relationship with the OW is your priority, so go be with her 100 percent,...
- My question today, is how did you deal with the breaking up period of the affair? My husband is in the process of ending his affair with the other woman, but it seems like he misses her. He told me today he was going home to sulk and be sad because...
- I turn to my dailystrength friends today for some much needed advice, or really perhaps just an ear to listen to this crazy life folding out in front of me... So the last time I updated you I was standing up for my sanctuary-- I would not allow the...
- Last night was the night it all came to a head. When this whole horrible nightmare started, I asked my husband to never bring the other woman to our house, because she had been hinting to meet the dogs- which was another no for me. I told him, if...