steppingovertheedge
Status:
Mood:
Good
Offline
- I've recently entered the online dating world. And I've had a few dates with different women. The one who I thought was the best prospect for a good long term relationship... we recently had a second date.I feel like she's a super nice person...
- I've been having a rough few days, maybe a minor backslide since moving into my new place. Certainly I have not initiated any contact unrelated to my daughter, but I am just waffling between anger and pain.Anyway, the night my ex (calling her that...
- I'm not there yet. But there have been quite a few times lately when I have commented on *something* - could be anything - about how normally "we" like things this way, or "we" tend to use this spice in that food, or "we" like to tell our daughter...
- After spending a month in a non-ideal situation living with my parents (to get away from my cheating stbx for my own sanity), I moved into my new place last Thursday.It has been good and bad. Things have been completely nuts with all the work...
- Where to begin. Some of you know my story, so I won't recap much.Getting divorced, wife is a disgusting cheating narcissist.I moved out of the house on 6/1 and began living with my parents to get away from her (since she would not do the honorable...
- HI all,This is slightly off-topic but some of you know my story and I figured I would solicit some input. Plus this is at least a positive-themed post.I will be moving in 1.5 weeks or so as part of the divorce process and getting away from stbx. I...
- This weekend is my daughter's piano recital. I have been her music companion for the 1.5 years she has been taking lessons (I play guitar, have strong knowledge of music theory, etc) - working with her on practicing, taking her to all her lessons,...
- I have this foolish notion that if I can get through this hardship without needing any prescription meds, it will be a victory of sorts - especially since I know stbx is on meds. But I know it's dumb. And I spend way too much time daily with a lot...
- I am a few weeks into the divorce process, and the revelations of my wife's cheating and the destruction of a lot of hopes and dreams. As you all know, it's pretty rough.I also, like some of you, have lost a lot of social ties during the marriage. ...
- I have not seen stbx's face in a week. This is good.Last Sunday I moved into my parents' house. This has been a bit of a struggle. But 7 days in, I am adjusting. I will have my own place in July. But I could not live with lying, cheating stbx...
- Just venting a bit I guess.This week I did what I had to do to get the hell out of the house I was sharing with lying, cheating stbx (until my new place is ready July 1). That meant moving in with my parents. It is difficult being here. It feels...
- Sorry for the very long and bitter post.Hard to start a brand new topic when I've been around a little while. Short story, getting divorced. Wife has been cheating for 2+ years (I recently found out) and treating me like shit. Absolute disgusting...
- If you're read my prior posts, you know I'm early in the divorce process. My wife (19 yrs!) emotionally checked out and has been passive-aggressively treating me pretty poorly for a while now (I now see).Over the last week I have noticed a...
- I am a musician and music fanatic; music can be a powerful mood-changer for me. As I go through this horrible process of divorce, I find myself selecting powerful songs and assigning them to one of two different mixes:The uplifting mix. Hopeful,...
- I have read a lot of advice both here and on other divorce-oriented websites about the need for healing after divorce. A common theme is that you need to get over the loss, become happy (or at least content) being by yourself, before you are ready...