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• Healthy Relationships
  

  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: steppingovertheedge

  Posted: 08/03/2025

  steppingovertheedge commented on the discussion Being Friends Before Lovers.

• Healthy Relationships
  

  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 08/01/2025

  steppingovertheedge commented on the discussion Being Friends Before Lovers.

• Breakups & Divorce
  

  Five days into the maelstrom

  Posted by: steppingovertheedge

  Last Reply: confessionsofaqueen 07/20/2025

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  Here's my story. I've learned a lot and gained some perspective from reading others' posts here as I've struggled with the ending of my marriage.We were together 19 years. Married 11 years. I am 41, she is 39. I basically spent my whole adult life with her. We have an 8-year-old daughter.The last couple of years things were not that great. I knew we were a bit "off", but I didn't realize until recently how bad it was. Apparently my wife had a better sense of how bad things were, but...

• Breakups & Divorce
  

  Force social connections or wait longer

  Posted by: steppingovertheedge

  Last Reply: confessionsofaqueen 07/21/2025

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  I am a few weeks into the divorce process, and the revelations of my wife's cheating and the destruction of a lot of hopes and dreams. As you all know, it's pretty rough.I also, like some of you, have lost a lot of social ties during the marriage. I was consumed with work, child care, and the day-to-day drudgery. I have my brother, who has been great. My parents and sister try to help but I don't connect as well with them. I have one or two other local friends who are quite busy so I might...

• Breakups & Divorce
  

  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: steppingovertheedge

  Posted: 02/04/2025

  steppingovertheedge commented on the discussion Is this really happening?.

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  Journal Comment

  Posted by: steppingovertheedge

  Posted: 08/18/2024

  steppingovertheedge commented on mynewnormal's journal In love.. and (drum roll please...) Happy!!

• Breakups & Divorce
  

  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: steppingovertheedge

  Posted: 02/10/2024

  steppingovertheedge commented on the discussion How to cope.

• Healthy Relationships
  

  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: steppingovertheedge

  Posted: 10/24/2023

  steppingovertheedge commented on the discussion Feeling Lost.

• Breakups & Divorce
  

  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: steppingovertheedge

  Posted: 09/12/2023

  steppingovertheedge commented on the discussion Need insight.

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  New Friend

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  Posted: 08/08/2023

  steppingovertheedge became friends with StrengthWithFriends.

• Life After Divorce
  

  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: steppingovertheedge

  Posted: 08/08/2023

  steppingovertheedge commented on the discussion Starting Over.

• Life After Divorce
  

  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: steppingovertheedge

  Posted: 08/08/2023

  steppingovertheedge commented on the discussion Starting Over.

• Life After Divorce
  

  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 08/08/2023

  steppingovertheedge commented on the discussion Starting Over.

• Breakups & Divorce
  

  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: steppingovertheedge

  Posted: 08/02/2023

  steppingovertheedge commented on the discussion She comes home tonight.

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  Journal Comment

  Posted by: steppingovertheedge

  Posted: 07/09/2023

  steppingovertheedge commented on mynewnormal's journal Blocked