Healthy Relationships Support Group

No relationship is perfect. A long-term relationship requires constant effort to understand each other, fix misunderstandings, solve problems and continue to grow as both individuals change and evolve. How we deal with our misunderstandings is the focus of this community. Join us to find support, get advice, and share your experience with your relationship.

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  • rose3

    Need a reality check...Is this normal?

    I’m having a hard time getting over someone that I have fallen for over the past 9 months. What bothers me is that it’s someone who is insulting when he is angry (i.e. name calling or negative), which I don’t take personally as I get that it’s more about him managing his anger than about me. On paper, this wouldn’t even be someone I’d give a second glance at in this respect ,...
  • Aronia

    How should I handle this ?

       So, my goal for this relationship is not to take a lot of crap, because typically I am SO patient that it eventually becomes destructive to me. In every serious relationship I had my patience and tolerance enabled my partners to eventually disregard my needs and wants.  This time I want it to be different, but I don't want to come off aggressive either.     In short, I wanted to visit a...
  • attnrose

    he was restraining his 5 yr old daughter

    Hi everyone,I was at my boyfriend's house last night, and brought over homemade dough for everyone to make their own pizzas (including my 10yr old daughter). He was mostly outside with his friend, while my daughter and I were inside helping his daughter make her pizza etc. Later that night his daughter was snuggling with myself and my daughter and he scooped her up wanting her to snuggle with him...
  • hopelessandlost

    My struggles

     I really want to have a great relationship which I'm sure would make me happy, but whenever I fall in love...I fall too deep I guess and most times the people I love don't love me back. 
  • gallagher22


    my name is Sam and I'm currently in what I think is an emotionally abusive relationship, he has never directly hit me although he has threatened to or threw stuff at me. My partner is on the Autism spectrum and doesn't cope with his emotions very well, especially when angry. I sometimes think that maybe I'm the one who needs to cope better with his condition and that he can't help acting the way...
  • HippyGipsyCowgirl


    My husband and I love each other emensly but have some serous issues. Meth addiction, sex & porn addiction, both bi-sexual, which we both confirmed rescently. He found out first then convinced me to do the same.There is a lot to this, but to make a long story short. He agreed that when the time came our own porn, and us would be enough when the time came in the sex and porn issues. That I would...
  • stucknlove2017

    in desperate need of advice

    I'm a 28 year old lesbian who's been in an on and off relationship with my girlfriend for 10 years now. I love this woman with everything in me but I feel like I'm falling out of love with her or something. She has two kids whom I adore but they act like they dont want me and they're mom to be together. Anytime me and they're mom are alone they always buss up in the room interrupting our...
  • kavliara

    In a difficult situation ..Looking for love

    In a difficult situation  very difficult relationship with children it's just not working for me  I don't feel same  the guy am with I don't feel inlove anymore  we have kids and not alot of family help  feel alone and pissed off alot  looking for romance elsewhere 
  • Wannabe-Doc

    She is now datin a guy&moving2my town-try2meet her

    I am becoming attracted to girls but I am married... I spoke to him about it bcuz he is also my bestfriend and he told me its called Bicurious. He is very loyal and doesnt know how to deal with me and these urges. I started to watch lesbian porn and now I think I am getting worse. I stopped watching the porn for months now hoping it was just a phase and I will get over it. I dont think its...
  • mynameiswhat

    Greysexual or just low sex drive?

    So I came across the term greysexual and I felt I related but wasn't sure if I just had a low sex drive. My boyfriend and I aren't physical very often because it tends to make me uncomfortable and it bothers him more and more. I don't really know what to do about it or how to work on it. 
  • mels

    anxiety with physical affection

    While I long for a long-term partner, I find it hard to even find casual dates as it takes a lot for me to comfortable with physical comfort. It doesn't help that my dating pool is 10x smaller due to being a lesbian. I'm 22 and everyone my age seems to be settling down or at least working towards a long turn relationship, but these anxieties with physical affection makes it difficult. I only like...
  • september2014

    How to reel in my sensitivity a bit

    My boyfriend has recently made little jokes here and there about me being around all the time. I met some friends after work for drinks yesterday and he said he may go somewhere else when he was done with work. He's been a little quiet lately, so I asked if everything was okay. He said that we tend to do everything together every time and he just wanted to shake things up a bit. He had been...
  • Flores2u

    New marriage 2nd time

    I was married for 13 yrs got divorced last year in dec, well someone in my past look me up on facebook, I was shocked. He message me ask if I was the person he knew yrs ago so I said yes, I given him my phone number. At the time I was still married but we were fixing to file divorce. I went to meet him after 28 years and we had a great time then I went back to my state. Got the divorce filed and...
  • BasilHerb

    Sexless Relationship Due To Illness

    Hi's my first post ever on Daily Strength. I'm hoping writing this down would be carthartic whilst my partner and I find a solution to not only our lack of sex but her health issues.If anything, I looking for emotional support. I can't talk to my friends or family, my counsellor has limited time and it's getting lonely in our really young relationship.Firstly, this is a lesbian...
  • misleadingsmile

    The end?

    My fiancée of 4 years is planning on leaving me. Now. When I finally start showing some improvement. She's depressed too. I told her to give her antidepressants (SSRIs) a chance to build up in her system...that she won't feel like this forever. But I don't think she's listening. I feel like I'm running out of time...