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I read about others fear or resistance to doing step 8, to me is seems an easy requirement. I have felt compelled to doing step 8 from day one and have had to wait.   My Gf, is awesome and...

I am still sober, over 10 months now(still  on step 7), which included no dating, no acting out, no drugs or alcohol. I have been living by myself, sometimes really depressed, sometimes happy and...

Not sure what triggered this memory but it hurt to relive it and tell it. I was a teenager, hurting, needing attention, love and  acceptance. i tried to kill myself, failed of course... I didnt...

this afternoon I am struggling, with loss i never had... Working the 4th step of recovery, requires you to make a fearless moral inventory of ourselves. it takes a long time, and it is rough and...

So I met with my EX sunday, luncheon and a movie. Things were okay, she still defends herself about her actions without me even questioning her.we hugged and kissed, I didnt feel butterflies.... She...

How do you trust someone...How do you learn to retrust someone...How long do  you take to build trust...My EX is wanting me back of course... We met and talked for a few hours. I listened mostly. I...

So last time she texted me, she blamed me for her lying, blamed me for her hiding things.Said I walked out on them, and broke her heart.I replyied never contact me again,  she replied, negativily of...

So my ex sent me another message last night.It starts out how great things were, all the love bombing possible. How great of a guy I am. How good I made her feel.  How funny, sweet and like-able i...

Yeap been four months since the break up.She reached out again... smh.  This time was the first time that she even got close to asking how I was doing. But it was only an attempt to get a reaction...

Yeap 113 days after the break up... (yes, she is still counting) she still continues to reach out. Even though I asked her not too.IT started with the I miss yous, and then she told me about how...

So its been over 3 months since the breakup with my EX. Last week I went on a date and had an adult evening. It was ok.  Then the next two days sent me into a spiral spin of depression and sadness....

Its been Three months since the break up. I learned something about myself this weekend that I had kept buried for decades. It is a greiving point for me that needs to be healed.  That has nothing...

Today marks the 4th week, my EX has not attempted to reach out to me.Which has helped me greatly to get over the anger adn frustration of the pain of the lies and disrespect.I am finally noticing...

Its been 12 weeks since I broke up with her. The days are getting better, a lot less saddness.  I notice hours go by without thinking about her. Yes, there are still times I think about her and...

its been over 2 months since the break up.the break up was may the 13th.I know she made decisions bases on her needs and wants.Those decisions dont define me.i want to have the strength adn will to...