Trust...
How do you trust someone...
How do you learn to retrust someone...
How long do you take to build trust...
My EX is wanting me back of course... We met and talked for a few hours. I listened mostly. I refused any touching, hugging, or kissing. I really dont want to be touched by anyone currently, not even handshakes really.
She still cant say it completely, " I cheated" and is still very defensive, even 6 months after the fact.
My aunt, is still pushing me to give her a chance... some other family members are on the fence about her.
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I'm sorry this has happened to you. Trust is one of the most important things in this world. Once it's broken how do you ever get that back again?
You have to follow what's in your heart. Noone knows us better than ourselves.
I hope no matter what happens you will put what's best for you at the forefront of any decision you make.
Peace!
She has to earn your trust back. This burden is on her, not you. She has to do the work.