4 full weeks of NC
Today marks the 4th week, my EX has not attempted to reach out to me.
Which has helped me greatly to get over the anger adn frustration of the pain of the lies and disrespect.
I am finally noticing other women now. Still not ready to date yet.
When I first broke up i did the stupid thing "best way to get over somen is to get under someone else", that only made me feel worst. Made me feel even sicker.
I know I will go back to seeing and dating other women in the future, just not ready yet.
I still have moments of sadness, and when i do i ask myself why am i sad and attempt to embrace the fact i can feel sad, because that means I was not sad before and after that moment.
I will get back to my high energy, high strung self.
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I made the mistake of getting with someone else right after too. You’re right, it only made matters worse.
I hope you start feeling better. I wish it didn’t take so long to get over someone. It will definitely get better, just takes a long time to get there. Hugs.
I think that's a mistake quite a few people make, getting with someone immediately after a breakup because we don't want to feel lonely and we are trying to feel a void, but It's great you are moving past it all and when you feel the sadness or the loneliness reach out on here and let it all out! That's what we are all here for! Love and hugs to you and stay strong!