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- I'm just wondering if anyone else here isolates themselves. I feel comfortable doing this, but of course it's not very healthy. I know I spend much more time alone than most people I know. I also find myself going out very late at night for some...
- I've had panic attacks for close to 2 years now. In some ways I've made a ton of progress, but in others I've regressed.I've become extremely comfortable with some triggers which initially I couldn't stand. I did that by 1) avoiding those...
- Hi all, I've posted here for a while off and on...I was married to an emotionally/verbally abusive sociopath, and I've been out for a year. I've come very far, but I still have a ways to go.But I wanted to talk about this idea of "taking full...
- So I left my ex-husband about a year ago. I'm still waiting for the final divorce papers, but everything is officially done. We have nothing linking us together anymore, and I'm happy about that.On the one hand, my life is pretty great now. I lost...
- Can anyone give me some insight into how abusers can be both so cruel and so kind? I've been out for 9 months, and my life has improved a TON. I'm happy now, have more friends, and my business is improving. I'm in no rush to find someone new, but...
- I just wanted to give some hope to people who are in the darkest part of either leaving or dealing with the grief after their marriage is over. I never believed anyone when they said "it gets better." It felt like "aren't they lucky" and "that will...
- So it's been 7 months since I moved out, and 1 month since the final divorce papers were signed.I really expected that things would be going better already. I'm usually good about "bouncing back" but this has really done me in. I hate to admit that,...
- I've realized that a lot of my friends are actually NOT supportive (going back years), and I'm wondering what your experiences with friendships have been.The group of friends I've had for the past 2 years are all rather selfish/manipulative -- yet...
- At first, I was elated. Thrilled to finally have it over. Then, I really became upset. It really hits you that it's done. I got a really bad cold right after and have been sick, and now I don't even feel like leaving my apmt. I always go out on...
- Sorry to list so many things all at once, but I guess I'm in a low point. It's been 6 months since I moved out. Before, I was really positive mindset most of the time (though I cried a lot, I mostly felt in control). I had hope that once I mourned,...
- My ex has been sitting on signing the divorce (uncontested) papers for about a month.He wants the divorce as much as, or more than, I do.He has no interest in me, and has left me alone since I moved out 6 months ago. (Except to ask for documents he...
- I think my mom is codependent, my dad is a narcissist (but not a sociopath though), and my sister is some type of bully. I think due to these things, I probably tried to "improve" the relationship instead of getting the he** out when things got...
- My ex was very emotionally abusive (criticizing, ignoring me for days, disregarding my needs, putting in ear plugs if I started crying, going to strip clubs w/o telling me, lying, flirting w/ other girls, refusing to kiss me or sleep w/ me,...
- Hi everyone. I was always a "normal" and "together" person. I never had any panic attacks, but about a month ago -- out of the blue -- I got a full blown panic attack in a subway car, when it stopped in a tunnel for about a minute. I felt trapped --...