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- My attempt to save my marriage. A story.We had a marriage that other people envied. We were best friends. We had a great family. We laughed a lot. We never argued. Like most marriages, it wasn't as picture perfect on the inside as it...
- I know she had limited time online, but she's been completely silent for 3 weeks now. Does anyone know if she's still at her son's house, or if she's alright?
- Last Tuesday, I confronted my H about the "new" affair I'd discovered. He didn't deny it. I asked him why he hadn't just told me when he gave me the laundry list of the others, and he said it was just one more nail in the coffin that he didn't...
- Is there anyone who has a success story of saving their marriage after finding out their partner is a sex addict? I don't mean "saving" as in "tolerating", but "saving" as in going through treatment.
- I wrote a journal entry with more detail, but the bottom line is that my H has started email contact with various women again. He says it's only to have friends, but isn't this the beginning of another spiral? I told him that to me it's like an...
- I heard this on the news while I was driving, and looked it up online when I got home.An NBA wife allows her husband to cheat once a year, and believes it keeps their marriage strong. He says he's never taken her up on the offer. A little reverse...
- I went online to pay the cell phone bill today, and was taken aback by the # of text messages on our current bill. It isn't a cost issue, because we have unlimited texting, but in the 10 days of this current billing cycle, there are over 700 text...
- Just to recap my story, my H was involved with a Bunny Boiler, and when he broke it off, she sent pics of them having sex to my children and pretty much told the whole town. So, many people know what's happened in our marriage.Now, let's fast...
- So DDay was March 28, 2011.Sex for the first time was last night. And then this morning. :-)Multiple reasons for abstaining for so long, including my H's total mental breakdown and hospitalization after I found out about the A, but still.....it's...
- So, we're almost 16 months past DDay. We're in MC, and he's in IC also. This past week, I had meetings at our corporate office, which is about 4 hours away, so I was up and on the road at 4 a.m. This isn't unusual for me, happens every week or...
- It's been 14 months since DDay, and 4 months since we started MC in an effort to rebuild our relationship.For the first several weeks in MC, I would do most of the talking, and get emotional, and my husband would shut down. Frustrating.In the past...
- I've been reading so many posts all over the site that are justifying cheating.1) It would only hurt my partner if they found out, I'm protecting them2) I really want my relationship to work out, and if my partner finds out it will ruin it.3) It...
- My CS chose the person we were selling a house to as the OW. Needless to say, it's complicated the situation to be carrying a mortgage for the OW. She gave us both a story about terminal cancer after my CS ended the relationship, and of course,...
- I would think the hardest part for the CS is DD. Once the cat is out of the bag, why is it so difficult for the CS to explain HOW it started, HOW it progressed, and WHAT they were thinking? If I were the CS (which I can't even fathom) I think that...
- How do you cope with the holidays when still struggling as a BS?I am a stereotypical matriarch when it comes to holidays: I host, I decorate like a fiend, I have baking days with my daughters, yada yada yada. You get the picture.....I'm one of...