LisaMariB
Status: I just want to move on in life. Get to the point where I don't think of him at some point in the day.
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- It's been 7, yes 7, years!!! Can't believe it! I was an absolute mess 7 years ago. This group really helped me put things into perspective. We were married 21 years, and this was the only site that dealt with long term relationship issues....
- I thought I was ready for this. I thought it's not biggy we've been divorced for 6 years!!! wow... this is just how it goes. But I wasn't. It was difficult to see the kids go to the wedding... they're grown adults 25/26 years old! They're...
- Hi everyone. Not down and out just reminiceing. My X called daughter and told her all about his plans for the long holiday weekend. Sent her pictures of them out on the boat with friends and her family and says how he misses her. I don't...
- Just a little update... i was diagnosed with stage 2 breast cancer. Bummer. I'm getting through it and have a tremendous outpouring of support, even from so called switzerland friends. I often find myself wondering what my x thinks about it....
- Hey everyone need a little advise here. How do you handle the X when he continues to say he does't understand why we can't communicate. That you still are harboring a lot of anger. That your not over it and still bitter.I'm 6 years D and he...
- So out of the blue I get a text from X that he's sorry he didn't get to tell me that he and "whatevertheF her name is" are getting married. Our daughter told me first and since we don't communicate he didn't know how to tell me. Ok so he gave...
- Hi everyone! Hope you're all having a great weekend. I wanted to update from my last post and see what you all think. I went through my lawyer to get verification that he did or did not receive a bonus. He had originally emailed me that he did...
- So I am supposed to get 10% of his annual bonus every year and he usually gets it in early February. Well we are well into March and I have yet to receive a check. Its a very large bonus so having that extra 4k makes a difference in my life. I...
- Some how I think staying friend with "mutual" friends can be done. It can't. You can't be loyal to two masters. Well not in the bible sense. I made a comment to a friend who is also friends with X. We talk on occasion but mostly me making...
- Hi everyone! I'm still around in the background reading everyone's post. Not everyday like I used to, but I still get encouragement from reading them when I can. I debate whether or not to post because I'm already 4+ years post divorce and talk...
- Not sure if anyone has heard of or use "tapping" but I came across this article and it really put my anger into perspective.http://www.thetappingsolution.com/eft-articles/why-i-love-anger-in-law-of-attraction-work/
- Well, I did what I shouldn't have done. I looked at my D Facebook to see what my X has been posting. Haven't looked in over a year but I figured...Hey...my D isn't home (she's with X today) so I just wanted to see what he's been up to. So here I...
- Ok I guess I've been reading a lot. Found this on chumplady.com and it hit because my x is coming into town next weekend to be with the kids. Let's see how I'll do...avoidance is my best...
- 4 Lessons Learned: 20 Years After My AffairReflections on what I’ve learned and what I wish I’d known twenty years ago. by Tim TedderI remember one particular afternoon in college when, for some reason, I became deeply contemplative during a...
- WHEN THE OTHER WOMAN BECOMES THE WIFEby Linda on SEPTEMBER 6, 2012 in PREVENTING INFIDELITYWhen affair partners get married does it really turn out to be as wonderful as they thought it was going to be? Read more for the perspective of a woman who...