Divorce after Twenty years together Community Group
I want to start something for those of us that were married for a long long time. I think that we face a little different issues than those who were dating for a few years or even married for shorter period of time. Being married for so long we have older children some have grandkids dealing with teenagers and their reaction to the divorice empty nesters dating after 40...
I saw a therapist who suggested tapping but it's not my thing. That doesn't mean it can't work for other people.
love and hugs
kamary
So "Tapping" is next. Why not?!
However, something I noted reading this is, whether you use your anger or your compassion, we're still working our way towards the same goal: drawing more of the love, acceptance, beneficial energies in the universe to ourselves, and releasing the dark, damaging, self limiting drags on ourselves.
Selfishly, I think it's easier on myself to take the loving and letting go path, anger takes so much energy! But, if it works for you, more power to you. I admit, if my divorce and relationship had been abusive or less about illness and more about narcissism, I can see where anger would be much more therapeutic! Thanks for sharing!