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- 4 years ago today, my second secret life and the OM,s happy little bubble came crashing down in a massive implosion and along with it my real life and my H's world as he knew it. Words could never describe the fallout of such a Dday. Especially...
- It's two days till our 3 year Dday anniversary and our 23nd anniversary is the 15th so we are off for a weekend getaway to celebrate both. We are both very grateful for where we are today in spite of the horrors and complete life changes we had to...
- I thought of an illustration that I would like to share, in relation to the FB stalking thread that I shared. This is particularly as it relates to those who are trying to rebuild, whether your SO knows, or not.Imagine that you are standing facing...
- I don't know what got into me tonight but I found myself heavily heavily tempted to unblock OM from FB to see what there was to see on his profile. I haven't looked since we blocked him probably 2 years ago. It was crazy and I started to...
- I want to talk about your M. I know this is your second A and there was a span of time between. I know that you are NC with your OW. You said after your first A that you did not do enough to rebuild your M but that this time you are doing more. ...
- It has been 2 yrs and 8 mos since Dday and still I struggle over the OM. Why? It's crazy. The relationship only lasted 2 months. I know part of the reason why. Because I gave a part of myself to him. By having sex with him I was basically...
- I have a difficult situation going on and I would like your advice. I have already gotten some advice and have been thinking about the best way to handle this situation.Several years ago I was a PT caretaker for a man about my Dads age in his 70s. ...
- I posted this as a journal entry but then decided to post it here too:I was working in OM's neighborhood again today. I have gotten to where I am mostly okay on these days once every other week, but just a little nervous when I go to and from the...
- Cole posted a link to his new blog post in the NYT article thread but I want to post the link again as a new thread. I have read a lot of things that he has written, (duh) but this blog post, I feel, is really, really good! I believe that by...
- My little car is dead. Timing chain broke and the engine is toast. It was my housekeeping car as well. It had my magnetic signs that advertised my business. We will get the signs back and put them on H's car if they fit but I grieved the loss of...
- You stop in front of an oscillating fan and walk back and forth with it because you don't want to miss a moment of the wonderful breeze.
- If you are having problems with painful sex start using Replens now. A Dr told me to use it and the results are amazing! I am very happy. You insert the cream, or whatever it is, with an applicator at bed time and for two or three days it takes...
- We just paid the mortgage and I'm not sure that was a good idea. the money won't be there in time. It will probably take us another week to get the money there and that will make everything else late. We are trying to survive less 1800.00 a month...
- Being new to this Menopause ride, I thought I would run this by you all. I had a weird new experience the other day in which something triggered a nervousness in me, but after that incident was resolved I just couldn't shake it. For the remainder...
- It started May 30th. I knew it was coming but I didn't know when it would hit. My first hot flash had me thinking the AC was broke. My family insisted it was not hot in the house but they dutifully checked it out anyway.Now I am having hot...