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- I have been meaning to post about this because I asked the question a few months back if we should tell our youngest son about my A's. The consensus was to at least wait until after his graduation from HS, which we did. We have been talking about...
- I have heard (seen actually) some of the BS's on here talk about their struggles with sex after DDAY and I want to share something with you that may help or at least give you a different perspective.On DDAY I made promises to my H. He made some to...
- well, today (being after midnight now) is our 1 yr DDAY anniversary and it is also the closest weekend to our 30th anniversary, an anniversary that was very much in question a year ago. So we are going away for the weekend to spend some good time...
- well, today (being after midnight now) is our 1 yr DDAY anniversary and it is also the closest weekend to our 30th anniversary, an anniversary that was very much in question a year ago. So we are going away for the weekend to spend some good time...
- I saw OM today car to car. He was in his mothers car so I didn't recognize right away that it was him. I pulled up at a stop sign. He was in the right turn lane right next to me. It is a busy road so you have to wait for traffic to clear. I saw...
- I saw OM today car to car. He was in his mothers car so I didn't recognize right away that it was him. I pulled up at a stop sign. He was in the right turn lane right next to me. It is a busy road so you have to wait for traffic to clear. I saw...
- I need to talk about something. I have a fear of being alone in public. I have a housecleaning business and I have no problem there. Driving around town to various homes and business cleaning. Even for single men. Even the car dealership where...
- I just posted this on the Rebuilding board but it seemed like I should post it here too.Just got to the section in After the Affair on self-forgiveness. Here is a quote:"You, the unfaithful partner, are solely responsible for your deception, and...
- Just got to the section in After the Affair on self-forgiveness. Here is a quote:"You, the unfaithful partner, are solely responsible for your deception, and need to forgive yourself for the harm you've caused by violating your covenant of...
- Recently, in another thread, Pink Pony said this:"my burning question is not why but how. how do you actualy go through with it? we can all come up with reasons why. everybody has neglected thier relaaitonship in one way or another during the...
- On an infidelity thread Pink Pony asked How the CS managed to pull off cheating. Being able to do that to someone you say you love. Good question. I have actually put a lot of thought into that for myself. I will attempt an answer.I believe our...
- Yesterday, H said he thinks it's time we tell our youngest about my A's. He is 18. Our other 2 kids know. Our 23 year old son knew OM and he is pretty well tuned in to me. He pinned me down about it a long time ago so I had to tell him. We told our...
- Can you list for us the things that you are doing towards your healing and restoration? whether you are rebuilding or not.Here are mine:Spiritual accountability to my priestSpiritual disciplinesWe had counseling as long as we could afford itreading...
- Today I was at Wal-Mart and a man I have know casually for some time came up to me smiling broadly and acting very familiar with me like we are old friends. He has always been very friendly with me but post DDAY he is one of only 2 men that have...
- Where were you at one year ago today? -or- Where do you hope to be one year from now?For me?One year ago today I was deep in the fog. I had had my first experience with OM #1. Mostly emotional with one very short quasi public physical encounter...