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- Today is the 2nd anniversary of my 'final' divorce.... {{[raising a glass of wine}}}} I remember being in the judge's chambers... 5 minutes tops... answering the "standard" questions from my attorney that brought my 30 year marriage to it's end...
- Is anyone else receiving multiple email notifications of your friends journal entries, posting of photos, etc?I don't want to turn them off completely. I like knowing when there's new stuff, but it's been going on for over a week. Just found it a...
- Was hoping they were gone forever but I guess not.... I am on vacation this week. Got all the obligations taken care of and thought I'd use the rest of my days for fun.... well... you know what they say about the best laid plans... All my "fun"...
- This is the “first” anniversary since my divorce was final. I guess I can stop counting now….I haven’t figured out how I feel about that today. I’ve got mixed emotions. We separated more than 2 years ago, so I’ve been through all the...
- I know that I only have control over my own actions... but a good friend of mine keeps returning to an abusive situation and I feel helpless. Christmas night I received a frantic phone call and the next day drove 5 hours one way to rescue my...
- Just wondering how people describe themselves (when necessary). Maybe it depends on the situation. I'm now officially divorced, but that word can have a negative undertone, I'd really prefer to use "single" over "divorced". I'm not overly...
- I am just so frustrated. I'm supposed to have my final divorce hearing next Monday. This past Monday I send my attorney an email asking if she has received the signed papers back from stbx's attorney. I don't hear from her until Wednesday. The...
- And it wasn't too hard... While checking out at the vets office today, the girl behind the counter commented that she (the dog) was due for yearly shots. Then I remembered I had never put in an address change with them. Obviously the reminder card...
- How many of you work in a cubicle environment? I do and there are just some things that are VERY annoying… can you add to this list?The co-worker who drums their fingers on the desk AND taps/pounds their feet on the floor (and there is carpet)...
- This is probably going to end up being rather lengthy, thanks for indulging me and I would appreciate any thoughts....I received notification for a mediation date. Now so far, my stbx has agreed to several of my wishes other than the house. That...
- From breaking the "no contact" rule....I want SO BADLY to email my stbx with this message:CONGRATULATIONS!!! It only took you 18 MONTHS to completely RUIN the perfect credit rating I maintained for BOTH OF US for 30 YEARS!!!!!!When I left, I made...
- Received a very upsetting text from my son this morning. I don't know if I have mentioned it, but he is a very disturbed young man (almost 18), so I am trying to keep all this in perspective. He lives with my stbx (his choice) and we don't...
- The mind is a funny thing... I've been separated a year and a half... I have no problem with "no contact" with the stbx - don't consciously miss him - don't miss my former life. I feel I made that emotional break a long time before I ever moved...
- I never used to have this problem. I find myself sitting around a lot, in front of the tv with the laptop in my lap...surfing... I used to not be able to sit around for more than a few minutes at a time... except at work. TV was just not my...
- I'm hoping somebody can educate me a little on what I could/should expect from an attorney. I have virtually NO experience dealing with lawyers - don't know any personally, never had to deal with one before. (I hang around with bankers.. lol) so I...