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Status: lost
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- I'm curious as to how you try to explained to your CS how much they hurt you, the pain and destruction they cause. My H saw me crying, saw the pain in my face but I don't think he completely understood how much he hurt me until I told him that the...
- I was talking to a friend the other day whose H work with my H and OW before my H was moved to another office and she was telling me how their were rumors at work about him and the OW, how everybody was talking and everybody thought they were...
- When H left for his deployment he was making an effort to make things work. First few weeks he was calling, emailing often. The OW wasnt there yet she made it there a few weeks after he did. He was been wonderful, telling me what I wanted to...
- If you don't know my H is overseas with the Army for a year, he left a little bit over a month ago. The OW is also in same overseas location but different jobs. He says their is NC and has seen a significant effort on his part to make things right...
- My anger comes from my H cheating on me. I am so angry at him , at the other woman. It's getting harder and harder to control this anger. I have outburts of anger with my kids, I don't hit them or nothing but I scream and throw things around. ...
- My H is currently overseas with the Army (has been gone over a month now) and the night before part of his leadership/superiors made it there. One of them was the supervisor that I talked to about his "friendship" with OW. When he saw my H he said...
- I've been hunting my H to tell me more details about his EA. I've been calm and patient in the outside even though in the inside I was anxious and growing impatient and more angry by the minute that he wasnt disclosing any information. So today he...
- My H told me a little bit on how things started with the OW and even though it hurt as hell I kept it together, remain calm and said thanks for his honesty and opening up. I'm getting frustrated cause he don't really want to talk about it, he wants...
- Most of the days I'm doing good and trying to move forward. My H is also trying even though he still haven't told me the whole story. Some days I still thinking about the whole situation and I remember the lies, the hurt. the pain, old...
- I've been trying for my H to open up about his EA (possible PA), so finally he started talking about it. He haven't told me everything. I want to know, I need to know everything, some spouses might not want to know but I do. It hurts to know how...
- My H denied, denied, denied, I have evidence to the contrary. He said he wants to do what it takes to show me he loves me and want us to be together. He won't own to his A. He is currently overseas for a year which makes the situation more...
- Husband left for his one year overseas on Friday morning. Supposedly their was no contact between him andOW. I cried and he hugged me and promised that things were going to be ok. We've been "working" on things, talking about the future, about...
- My husband left today for another year long deployment overseas. Scared of what can happen cause his EA started in his last deployment in 2009 and carried over to 2010 when he came back (the whole time he was back home). Finally he cuts of...
- My husband is in the military and was deployed all of 2009 where he met the OW, when he left that time things at home were good and he still got involved in EA. Well when it seems like things are getting better, no contact with OW, he is leaving...
- I know and understand that my husband is the one that betrayed his vows, he is the one that lied, he is the guilty party in this marriage but I can't stop thinking about her. I just dream of ways to humilliate her (if I could or if opportunity...