My husband is in the military and was deployed all of 2009 where he met the OW, when he left that time things at home were good and he still got involved in EA. Well when it seems like things are getting better, no contact with OW, he is leaving again tomorrow for another year. Scared, don't know what to expect, he says things will be ok but just imagine.....things were good last time he left and he manage to bond with somebody else, this time things are on shaky ground so my fears and doubts are driving me crazy. I'm trying to act all calm and collected but inside I'm dying cause I really don't know what could happen. OW is also deploying, they don't work in same office anymore so their is no daily interaction but they would see each other on ocassion. My brain is in overdrive right now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! All I can do is pray, wish and hope for the best.