Rebuilding Marriage After Infidelity Community Group
A community for those who have been through the heartbreak of infidelity and decided to stay with their partner and try to re-build the relationship.
I've been hunting my H to tell me more details about his EA. I've been calm and patient in the outside even though in the inside I was anxious and growing impatient and more angry by the minute that he wasnt disclosing any information. So today he wrote me an email, he is overseas with the military, giving me some more information. I wasnt as upset as I was sad and hurt. He has told the OW that he really liked her and was getting divorced to start a relationship with her but then changed his mind and decided to work on our marriage. He said it was really hard to let her go cause he really like her a lot and had developed strong feelings for her. OW is divorce and according to him she haven't dated since her ex husband and she took a chance with him thinking they were going to have a future together cause he was getting divorce and not working things out with me. She told him he broke her heart cause she put herself out there for him and he decided to stay married and work on his marriage. Ahhhh that really pissed me off!!!!! WTF was she thinking? She gave herself a chance with the wrong man, a married one, my husband and mess with the wrong wife!!!! Just like other wives in here, I got the improve version of my H since we got married and I'm going to let another woman have him? He is no prince charming and he betrayed me but let her have him so they can live happily ever after? I think not.....she can go fuc** herself!!! I think he is scared that I might fight with her cause I told him that I despise her and thank God I didnt see her after Dday cause I would probably have been on her to scratch her eyes out!!!
Usually I explode when he tell me hurtful things but that just makes him scared of talking to me so I'm proud of myseit for keeping it together and saying thank you for his honesty.
I'm sure their is more to tell and more pain and hurt but I'm glad he was honest. I see it as progress!!
Ahhhhh...feel better after I put it in writing.
Usually I explode when he tell me hurtful things but that just makes him scared of talking to me so I'm proud of myseit for keeping it together and saying thank you for his honesty.
I'm sure their is more to tell and more pain and hurt but I'm glad he was honest. I see it as progress!!
Ahhhhh...feel better after I put it in writing.
-
My 6mo twin DD's are EBF and just started rice cereal on the first. Everything has been going fine except this morning one of them had a diaper rash (lots of redness around her anus). I read this as one of the signs of an allergy. BUT I did just buy a different brand diaper yesterday (which they have used randomly before w/no issues). Do you think its the cereal or the diaper? Im ready to start...
Proud of you!!!!!
You know, I am so sick of these selfish whores thinking it's ok to go after a married man. Ok, even if your H said he was divorcing you, her response should be, "Ok, then call me when the divorce is final and if I'm still available we can give it a shot." But NOOOOOOO, they want our man, so they think they are entitled to taking them. I just try to remind myself that these women are emotional adolescents who just do not have the ability to think about how their actions affect others. They are like toddlers; it's all about self-gratification. I think they cared more about themselves than they did about our H's. Anyway, keep up the good work. I know it's hard, but you've already come a long way baby!
Znz is right! Keep biting that tongue and make yourself approachable for him to spill all the beans, especially when H is deployed for long periods of time. (I've been with my H for 20 years of his 22 year military career). I'm happy for you that you are making the much needed progress that you seek. I hope it continues. And while it might not be the best bet to go ranting to the H right now, we are here for you to vent to!