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  Know

  Posted by: Jke1

  Last Reply: SadieBee 03/30/2019

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  when did you know someone was the one? 

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  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 02/20/2019

  Jke1 commented on the discussion Dating again after being married to someone abusiv.

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  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 02/19/2019

  Jke1 commented on the discussion Letting go.

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  Letting go

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  Last Reply: Heatherbliss 02/20/2019

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  Dating i still cant get someone I really cared for out of my head. He didn't feel the same way until I broke things off and said he made a mistake. My feelings are that he didn't really love me and kept me around because I was a security for him.. 

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  Joined New Group

  Posted by: Jke1

  Posted: 02/19/2019

  Jke1 joined the group Healthy Relationships.

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  Dating again after being married to someone abusiv

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  Last Reply: Jke1 02/20/2019

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  I met someone who we were just friends first and would hang out as friends with our same friends. He is amazing with my families kids and mine. He loves my daughter. He helps me without even being asked. He has helped more then my x ever did. Im still so scared to take any steps. I'm scared he will turn into my x. How do you handle this? He doesn't push me on anything. 

• Breakups & Divorce
  

  getting power

  Posted by: Jke1

  Last Reply: stardust7 09/08/2018

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  I am now realizing I do not have to answer to my x or give him an explination. It is driving him nuts! I feel so free. I am so  glad I got my strenght and take chage attitude back. My family and x hated it. Well guess what thats how we get stuff done. Nothing happens waiting for people to take care of you. 

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  limbo

  Posted by: Jke1

  Posted: 08/05/2018

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  I feel like I am stuck between my old world and new one. I used to want set things for our family now I am realizing I may not want them anymore and it's ok. I am enjoying just raising my child for now and realizing I need to slow down and soak up every momment with my child. It's freeing focusing on my child and I. Verses doing everything perfect so my spouce doesn't get angry. I am loving being free.

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  moving on

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  Last Reply: Anij34 07/30/2018

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  My x goes through times of being such a jerk and  yelling to being super nice. I can't change that and it drives me nuts. I am over him I am just sad of all the waisted time I spent. But also glad about what I learned. He posted on social media I am fat and lazy when I work and workout. He tries bring me down. 

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  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: Jke1

  Posted: 07/25/2018

  Jke1 commented on the discussion Trying to discover my strength.

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  I am ok

  Posted by: Jke1

  Last Reply: LostAndy 06/03/2018

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  I am beginning to be ok. I am just sad we worked so hard to get a home and things we have to find out he truly didn't want me. I love my new life and love that I work from home and raise my baby. I am slowly feeling ok with everything. it's been five months and I feel strong when before I felt weak and that he dictated everything. 

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  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: Jke1

  Posted: 05/27/2018

  Jke1 commented on the discussion Separation but under one roof?.

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  self care

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  Posted: 05/27/2018

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  I am taking care of myself. I refuse to be like other moms who let themselves just go...emotionally, physically and spiritually. Why are women expected to give up everything when men are aloud to be selfish?

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  accepting

  Posted by: Jke1

  Last Reply: jaynib 05/26/2018

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  I am now trying to accept reality. I know I can not bargin with the end of my marrige. He put on a good show of being a good guy...when it was us....kid in bed there was a dark side. I hid it from the world. Now I am the one suffering the consiquences. He charmed my friends, pastor, family and cops. I look like the scammer. 

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  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: Jke1

  Posted: 05/24/2018

  Jke1 commented on the discussion being body shamed.