Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Believe it or not, there are men out there with a realistic view on female bodies. My current bf is attracted to big girls so I don't worry so much about being perfect. People aren't perfect. A mature man will know that and be happy that you are healthy and Pat you on the back after a workout because he knows it makes you feel better, not because he thinks if you work out you will look like some tiny porn star. Sadly a lot of men have skewed views of how women should look and behave. Don't blame yourself or feel sorry, feel sorry for your ex as he clearly wasn't raised right by being disrespectful like that to you. Like the other post said, real friends will see how horrible what he did is. You need to move on. Some people are flaky and superficial. Move on and leave those idiots to their fate.
If you already had him blocked and you are finding this out from mutual "friends", I would kindly ask them to stop telling you stuff, and distance yourself from anyone who won't stop. You don't need any toxic people in your life.
I pray that you can also forgive your husband and you will be able to move on. I hope things will be alright and you will feel better soon. Keep us posted, God bless.