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• Anxiety
  

  Things Are Looking Up

  Posted by: matt9030

  Last Reply: arfie 12/07/2020

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  Been over a month since I have posted anything so I thought I would give an update. From my last post, I was waiting to talk to my GF about our relationship as she has been putting me through difficult situations and it really caused my anxiety to rise and question a lot about myself and us. I said I wanted to work on us and try to come to an understanding with both of us but she said she wanted to break up as she was too busy, had pictured long-distance differently, and some other things. She...

• Anxiety
  

  Wanting to reach out. But should I?

  Posted by: matt9030

  Last Reply: PaulBunyan 10/26/2020

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  It's been over two weeks now since my break with my girlfriend has started. I've felt more good about myself and been more relieved and relaxed. I figured out what I want and need out of a relationship and know what I'm going to say when I see her again. I also realized some of the things I had been doing wrong and may have been putting my insecurities upon her without realizing it. The break doesn't end for another three weeks which feels like a long time right now but it should come by...

• Anxiety
  

  Struggling but getting better

  Posted by: matt9030

  Last Reply: Prycejosh1987 10/26/2020

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  Over the past two weeks, my emotions have been a roller coaster. From feeling so stressed and overwhelmed by putting my all into a relationship while my partner sat there, to now feeling more relaxed and relieved. I still miss my partner and want to talk to them but it has also given me a lot of time to think about our relationship and what I'm trying to get from it. I've also thought a lot about my partner and if she is really meant for me. I care about her unconditionally even when I was...

• Anxiety
  

  Tough decisions to make for myself

  Posted by: matt9030

  Last Reply: Ash122 10/18/2020

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  Recently I started a break as I've mentioned in previous posts. In the last couple of days, I have started to notice things she said to me on the last call I made towards her when I said I wanted a break. I decided to take this break because I felt she wasn't respecting my boundaries with guy friends and wasn't treating me properly. Her guy friend confessed a crush on her and complimented her sexually. I asked her to stop talking to him after that because it was putting me in a rough situation...

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  Joined New Group

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  Posted: 10/15/2020

  matt9030 joined the group Jealousy.

• Anxiety
  

  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 10/15/2020

  matt9030 commented on the discussion Loving too much.

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  Loving too much

  Posted by: matt9030

  Last Reply: Prycejosh1987 10/26/2020

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  The past couple of days I've realized that I love my partner unconditionally. She hasn't been treating me the way I've been hoping but nonetheless I still treat her the way I think she wants me too. We decided on a break together the other day and made boundaries in order to respect each other. But I've found myself writing letters to her everyday since then and I even made a piece of art about our love. My question to myself is if I'm feeling so mistreated and uncared for by here why do I keep...

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  New Friend

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  Posted: 10/13/2020

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• Anxiety
  

  Break in a Relationship

  Posted by: matt9030

  Last Reply: Ash122 10/20/2020

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  Hello,Recently I have been struggling mentally with overthinking and getting stressed out. I used to go to my partner to help me with it but then I started to realize she was the way I was feeling these emotions. She didn't seem to want to put that effort in like I did and she kept being friends with this guy who was making sexual remarks to her and I asked her if she could stop but she kept saying no. After we had that argument I decided I wanted a break from her for a while because I can't...

• Long Distance Relationships (LDR)
  

  New To Long Distance and Relationship Anxiety

  Posted by: matt9030

  Last Reply: brandnewangel 09/24/2020

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  Recently I have been feeling more anxious and overthinking way more than I should be. I've tried multiple ways to try and prevent me from doing this but nothing seems to quite work besides long drives to place but it is very hard to do that especially with school going on. I love my partner with all of me and embrace every part of her. We've only been dating the last couple of months but known each other for over 6 years now. We both attend different colleges and it seems like she does not put...

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  Joined New Group

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  Posted: 09/24/2020

  matt9030 joined the group Long Distance Relationships (LDR).

• Anxiety
  

  Change and Seperate

  Posted by: matt9030

  Last Reply: Mid 08/31/2020

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  This past week I've recently moved into college and started classes. It had been going fine at first and I was enjoying it by over the first couple of days I slowly felt like I was becoming isolated as all my classes are online. I had been talking to my girlfriend nonstop too to help me feel like I still had someone to talk too even though my lectures were online and now she went off to college and is having the best time possible. I've thought about contacting a local therapist on campus but I...

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  Joined New Group

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  Posted: 08/15/2020

  matt9030 joined the group Anxiety.

• Breakups & Divorce
  

  A Year Ago

  Posted by: matt9030

  Posted: 11/04/2018

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  Its been over a year since my heart was broken hard and over that time I’ve reflected a lot. There are days where I still miss her, and not just the feeling I had with her. But after all this time I’ve realized I was at wrong many times in this year but also had been right as well. I guess I could say I’m feeling happier now than I had been a year ago. School is going interesting so far and funny enough I actually have a class with my ex which can make it strange at times but that is the...