Anxiety Support Group
Anxiety is a physical condition marked by intense and persistent feelings of distress, fear, angst or dread. General anxiety caused by routine day-to-day stresses usually passes quickly and is experienced by almost everyone at one time or another. However, such feelings that linger over time and are very difficult to cope with, and which lack a clear cause, may indicate...
Recently I started a break as I've mentioned in previous posts. In the last couple of days, I have started to notice things she said to me on the last call I made towards her when I said I wanted a break. I decided to take this break because I felt she wasn't respecting my boundaries with guy friends and wasn't treating me properly. Her guy friend confessed a crush on her and complimented her sexually. I asked her to stop talking to him after that because it was putting me in a rough situation and made me uncomfortable. She said she didn't like the attention he gave her but said she liked that he complimented her ass. It sounded like she was blaming me for a lot of the stuff going on but not paying attention to her she has been acting towards me. I've been putting this effort into the relationship none stop while she hasn't put any at all. I'm currently trying to work on myself during this break and improve my mind and reevaluate this relationship. I got a gut feeling she is still talking to this guy even after our fight and maybe hanging out with him but I can't be sure. I hope she is thinking about how she has been treating me and how I am not in the wrong here but I know she isn't. Should I continue on with this break and work on myself and hope everything works out for the best? I do care and love her a lot but I don't know if she feels the same way back.
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Hello- I am new to the group
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My therapist really knocked some sense into me last Friday about my spending. She said that there are needs and there are wants. She said that there is always going to be cheap stuff to buy, but do I need it? The answer is mostly "no". So today, I am taking back some things that I bought online at Kohl's, namely a 9 x 12 rug and a quilt for my bed. I also bought sheets that I don't need...
Only you can make the decision for your well-being.
You can only work through the relationship, not the person.
When you separate the relationship and person, you'll notice different ways of observing your feelings and emotions and thoughts.
Understanding the conflict and making your options are as individual and unique as the relationship.