Jealousy Support Group

Jealousy typically refers to the thoughts, feelings, and behaviors that occur when a person believes a valued relationship is being threatened by a rival. This rival may or may not know that he or she is perceived as a threat. If you or a loved one may have an issue with jealousy, this community is a good place to start exploring the issue and get support. We're here for you.

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  • FirstTime

    Am I crazy!?

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    My boyfriend constantly makes comments about other girls in front of me and I have told him multiple times that this upsets me and he still contiues to do it! Am i justified in thinking that he is doing something wrong? Or am I just being overly dramatic like he says? Help please because I feel like I am going crazy!
  • ginaburtonn

    maybe im overthinking

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    soo.. where do i even begin. So ive been with my boyfriend on and off for about 7 years. we've had many ups and downs but our main problems are jealousy. He thinks im always screwing any man that even talks to me. Then, when i see him always on his phone i get very upset because its ALWAYS a woman he is "friends" with. I have confronted him on a few, i am always told they are just friends or they...
  • Jealous1234

    Worried...

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    Hi,I have had a some trouble with jealously lately in my relationship. I practiced mindfulness and thoughts regarding my ego which hell. But this relationship is different then my past (s). He is a dj performer that plays techno, likes to party, and still is very responsible. I am bisexual, which he has had a real hard time with this but am in a monogamous relationship with him. But in the last...
  • glisteningmoon

    Anxiety/low self-esteem/jealousy in relationships

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    Hi,I guess this post encompassesses elements of anxiety, low self esteem, jealousy, relationships and sexuality. To provide some context, I am a 23-year-old bisexual woman who is currently in a relationship with a man of the same age (we have been together for 3 months, so far). This is my 4th relationship, and the first that has been with a man. Up until this point, I indentified as a lesbian,...
  • Brunette55

    Jealously in a relationship

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    Hi guys, Im on here hopefully to get some support and advice on how to deal with my jealously. Ive always been a very jealous person, but I've been dating this guy for 9 months now, and my jealously has not really improved. Before our official relationship started, we were hooking up casually, no labels. That was a dumb idea, because I had really strong feelings for him at this time, and i didnt...
  • youngrose

    What's your issue??

    So, we all know that jealousy mainly revolves around insecurites of ones self. But, what is the main issue you sruggle with?? Do you not trust you SO for a good reason? Has he/she cheated before causing your insecurities? Do you have a habbit of just always checking his/her emails, voicemails, facebook etc? Do you struggle with your own self image? Do you think you're not pretty enough? smart...
  • amanda2413

    Going to end up losing him

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    ive been jealous my entire life and suffer from depression and anxiety. I overthink everything, constantly go through my boyfriends phone even though I never find anything. Last night I saw a strange number in his phone that called him after midnight, so I called it and a girl picked up. It ended up being someone way older than him that needed some help. Not to mention I'm pregnant, so my...
  • AssHat

    Just need to vent

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    I have a boyfriend who likes to experiment in the bedroom. He also is very attracted to other women and especially Asian women. He knows that I am jealous yet wants to be able to say what he wants when he wants. For instance, he loves women with large breasts. That's kind of a no brainer, when it comes to men. He comments when he finds other girls attractive, and I just acknowledge or shrug it...
  • Thatgirl97

    Confused

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    My husband and I jumped into our relationship pretty fast. We've been together for a year and are already married. He is currently deployed and I recently found out he's been looking up his ex and her family on Facebook. They had only been broken up for a couple months before we got together and I feel like he never stopped loving her, but I don't know if I'm just overreacting. What is your...
  • clooo21

    Jealousy/Control

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    Hey guys,I just wanted some support on jealous and controlling behaviors. I am in a relationship and have been for about a year. I find myself getting really jealous and sometimes controlling without meaning to. I've always kind of been a jealous person which I know can be unhealthy. I get nervous when my boyfriend is around women I don't know, although I know he would never do anything to hurt...
  • TayCo8

    Seeking Balance and Understanding!

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    Hello all, I am new to this, so thank you to anyone who is taking the time to read and/or respond.I'm a 26-year-old girl in a same-sex relationship with the most wonderful person on earth (besides Bruce Springsteen).My girlfriend and I have been dating for nearly four years, and I would be remiss to find a time I'd rather be without her. There is seldom an issue between us that cannot be...
  • sofia1279

    Jealousy

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    Hi guys in my past I survived hard relationship with betraying from my ex husband and also I sew my mother suffering from this with my father and those things influenced to my current relationship I have relationship now with my boyfriend which have a friend woman am sure that she loves him and she is married but her relationship she said not good with his husband everyday she called and messaged...
  • DK17

    Taking control of my mind

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    I struggle with jealousy on a constant basis, maybe it's more of a fear about my husband leaving me and loving someone else. I'm always comparing myself to other women. And I never measure up in my mind at least. It makes my blood boil when I think he's checking other women out which I know I can't control. It's affecting my mental health though and I hate going out coz of the way I think and...
  • I have been dating my boyfriend for about 3 years. And before that we were bestfriends. I never had problems with him having friends woth other girls before. But right now we're in different universities as well as in different states. We're both in our first years right now and in our 2nd semester. So, he has this new group of friends in the university that he goes. There's this one particular...
  • darbsdad

    Trying to fight through this

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    hi, I'm new to the group and as you probably would think, I'm at the end of my rope here. My jealousy and severe feelings of inadequacy have gotten to the point that my relationship with my gf of 4 years is in severe jeopardy. I've admitted that this is MY issue, she's never given me any reason to doubt her, and believe me I've searched high and low. I hate feeling this way. Constantly feeling as...