Jealousy Support Group

Jealousy typically refers to the thoughts, feelings, and behaviors that occur when a person believes a valued relationship is being threatened by a rival. This rival may or may not know that he or she is perceived as a threat. If you or a loved one may have an issue with jealousy, this community is a good place to start exploring the issue and get support. We're here for you.

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  • Justify

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  • My husband and I have been together for 2 years, married for 1. He has a lot of exes, I was married for 20 years. Most of his exes are artists or musicians or poets just like him. I'm none of the above. I'm a banker. He led quite the wild lifestyle before me and a big part of me feels he misses it. We have an 11 month old and I believe the baby is the only reason he hasn't ditched
  • Hello All,Okay so I am in a Dilemma and I'm not sure what to do about it. I am of course trying to listen to my intuition and it is seeming to be harder than I expected. I also expect that I already know what I want and cannot form into words or follow through. So I am living with my boyfriend, "S", we just moved in together. He is great, absolutely wonderful. I am the happiest I have ever been...
  • wonderingifiamwrong

    Flirting

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    I have been with my husband for 30 years. He has always been a bit of a flirt. I try to explain to him that is really hurts my feelings and makes me feel disrespected when he does this. Honestly we don't even have much of a social life because of this. I don't know if I am over reacting. But I feel if it's something that bothers me so badly why does he do it. It usually starts with him being...
  • fridanyc

    Jealous & insecure

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    In all my past relationships I always felt more attractive than my partner. I was used to getting a lot of attention from others now for the first time I feel as if my current partner gets all the attention. I hate feeling jealous especially because my partner is so outgoing and a people person. I especially hate when my partner has these random conversations with strangers this usually happens...
  • Hi everyone. I'm here because I have issues with insecurities and jealously when I am in a relationship. I want to feel confident and be able to trust my boyfriend, especially when he is out with other friends. I tend to get into arguments because I stress my boyfriend out with this problem. It's not my intentions, but I have trouble controlling my feelings and what comes out of my mouth. My...
  • Hello Everyone,I hope I can find someone who has passed what I am passing and found a solution, because is something I lost control of it.I am 27 years old guy, coming from a well known family,with a good job, kind and caring but with a bad past. Always confident, unless it has to do with love, I lose it, i feel like I am nothing in-front of other people. Unfortunately I am victim of something...
  • I had the most beautiful and loving girlfriend in the world, but she was too jealous, she dumped me on my birthday because other girl said "Happy birthday" to me on my facebook. I though it was ridiculous of her and i had to let this crazy bitch go... I was mistaken, she just had a problem, and i want you people to help me. Please, she IS the love of my life, please HELP!
  • KSS77

    Any advice would be great

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    So I was wondering if anyone could give me some advice. Here's the situation. Years ago maybe around 2000-2001, my sister told me she was sleeping with this guy I knew from childhood. It bummed me out pretty bad because I really had a thing for him. Fast forward to 2005, I'm at the grocery store with her and he walks in. I wave hello, he comes over says hello but says nothing to her. She says...
  • hippiechick6699

    ugh.

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    how to start...?I am jealous, until recently I never thought of myself as jealous. Rather, open and welcoming, someone who loves everyone. I have been with my boyfriend almost 5 years now. I am 23 and we have been together since college. He has been with probably 20 times the amount of people I have, not kidding, and that leaves me very insecure as our sexual intimacy has always been awkward....
  • Aryanrod

    Losing Grip

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    I really dunno how to get through this..I don't know where the mistake lies on.Do I have an unreasonable insecurity behavior?Or is it my husband that don't know how to take care of my feelings?I always think that I can't fill the void in his heart, that's why he will keep in touch with the previous women in his life.Since last month he had been chatting with his niece almost everyday, I told him...
  • Hello to allI know the title may seem silly by I have a genuine question about jealousy and trauma.I stayed with the same guy for over 3 years and experienced a lot of jealousy during our relationshipMy jealousy was founded because he was extremely promiscuous and flirty with other (basically all) women EVEN if I was in front of himHe had online profiles and would have inappropriate conversations...
  • Hello, first and for most than you for taking the time to read. I have added a topic because I have no idea what to do with my girlfriend right now. Okay so I saw her texting some guy from her college and I read her texts when she wasn't looking (I know it's a bad thing to do and a invasion of privacy) and found texts like oh you used to fancy me in school and ill facetime you later. She says...
  • jojo15944

    Jealous and angry

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    Hi, So i came to this forum because i want to learn to better control my anger i am currently deployed and because of taking thing out on my gf she has told me that we can not be together until i get it under control. Anyways the jealousy part.Her friend is talking to a guy and on a previous occasion my gf "B" went out with her friend said guy and that guys friend we will call him "A" so at this...
  • I've been on this website on and off for a few years and I don't think I've ever started a post. I feel like I need to now though, because I have come a long way, and it saddens me to read the posts on here and understand completely how people feel.I used to be the jealous girlfriend. Horribly jealous. I wouldn't allow him to watch porn, to look at girls, to communicate with his ex (who he has...