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- By now, I'm sure the title has caught the attention of everyone. It's the top three areas of my life that I find the most anxiety with. I've struggled through the parenting. Starting a family, raising children and ultimately a divorce have all...
- Hi group,It's been almost a year since my last post. Even then I was still coming to terms with life after the divorce. Learning the ins and outs of my wants and desires in a partner are still on the front line of my progress. I've been dating and...
- I’ve been doing a lot of searching lately. Searching for clarification on what it is I want in a partner. I’ve looked back on several past relationships and of course my marriage. All of which give me a clear distinctions of what I want in a...
- For the first time in so long, Her and I spent time around each other with our daughters. We took them to dinner on Christmas Eve and she came over on Christmas Day and had lunch with the girls and I, along with my sister and her husband. It was...
- The season is changing. Just as it did when we met. Warm nights become cool. The scent of the breeze takes me back to when we met. I’m saddened that after all the energy spent on things, I’m walking away with nothing. Yes, I’m no longer...
- If I have learned anything this year, its is that I won’t ever be ready for what life throws at me. I wont have the right words when it counts. I won’t know what to choose when fate itself is staring me down. But now I know I don’t always need...
- I used to think I couldn't go a day without your smile.Without telling you things and hearing your voice back. Then, that day arrived and it was hard but the next was harder. And I knew with each sinking feeling is was going to get worse and I...
- I’ve tried several times lately to make post but once I dive into my emotions I let them get the best of me and I fall to pieces. I give up and just lose it. I miss having a wife. I miss trying to make her laugh. I miss leaving love notes. Oh, the...
- Ive not wrote here in a while. I’ve started several but get too emotional and ultimately give up. This month would’ve been 8 years of marriage. This June will have been three years since I discovered her affair. It’s now almost two months...
- I do. I don’t go a day without her on my mind. I imagine her smiling. I can still hear her laughing. My head still turns at the slightest of noise when I’m alone, hoping it’s her I’ll see. I can barely recall and the scent of her lingering...
- The days slowly pass. Lately I’ve felt numb to everything. I can’t get the divorce off my mind. For 12 years I’ve been a husband. A title I’ve held proudly. Combined with being a father I’m certain there aren’t any prouder accolades that...
- It’s a new year. A year I never expected to be faced with but here I am. I have these highs and then these lows that keep taking turns. As I’ve said before, during the highs everything seems so planned and calculated. Most thoughts are met with...
- Good evening. I am hoping to find some insight from someone on the issues of moving on and the issues that are a result of doing so. My wife and I are getting a divorce. We worked on our relationship for a couple years after her having an affair and...
- My wife and I were married for 5 years before she had an affair with someone she met through her work. It was devistating. The world turned itself upside down and inside out. Everything before that came into question. Her honesty, loyalty, integrity...