I'm going through the same thing right now. My bf and I broke up about a week ago. It was a shit relationship. I'm still having a hard time waking up and not staring at My phone thinking I'm receiving a text. I miss him. But I know he's not right for me. Things will get better for us. Jeep your head up and stay strong.youre not alone

That broke my heart to read. Im sorry for what you continue to go through. So much love you have in your heart for someone who didn't cherish that and return it. I pray one day soon your heart has peace and you can move on. and the day comes someone who will treat and love you better than you ever imagined. And you will not even think of your ex anymore

That describes my feelings so accurately! Everyday I feel like I am losing her all over again. It has truly crushed me.

realize that she doesn't care
cold?
nope reality
guys that were good and valued who they were with tend to take the break hard & usually sweetiepie was manipulative because she knew she had a trusting guy
she doesn't care

I remember you!!! I posted on this site several months ago. I took a break from it because I thought this was a site to support each other, not bash each other. I remember reading your posts and thinking that my feelings were the same. I hope you don’t mind me asking, but is she still around the area where you are? Do you all have any contact? I know the feeling when you find something of the ex’s or when you roll over in the bed thinking you can give them a little peck on the face or arm. Everyone reacts differently and I believe no one has the right to tell you how to get over your breakup. Good luck with your future!!!

i am so sorry. i am going through the same thing right now. i am so down on myself. and keep blaming myself for him leaving me for his desire for money. i do not even know the true reason why he left. i tried to support him with whatever he could...whatever he needed. I would cook and clean the majority of the time (85-90%). I meal prepped, etc. yet nothing was good enough...

i am sorry for what you are going through. i have been going to counseling and things are trying. so i understand. just keep moving.

I used to think I couldn't go a day without your smile.

Without telling you things and hearing your voice back.

Then, that day arrived and it was hard but the next was harder. And I knew with each sinking feeling is was going to get worse and I wasn't going to feel ok for a very long time.

Because losing someone isn't just an occasion or an event. It doesn't just happen once. It happens over and over again. I lose you every time I pick up your favorite coffee mug, whenever that one song comes on the radio, or when I discover an old T-shirt in the bottom of my laundry pile.

I lose you every time I think of kissing you, holding you or wanting you. I go to bed at night and lose you, when I wish I could tell you about my day. And in the morning, when I wake and reach for the empty space across the sheets, I begin to lose you all over again.


Hello From The South
Wow I wanted to re-post your words You cannot see it now.There is someone that wants you that will show you your VALUE.Do you think that she would really care that you took the time to pen those words from your heart?She is enjoying herself some-where.I have been there.We kind of all have.But I will tell you this- and these words are crystal- If you Master the art of Letting Go- self partner with yourself- be true to yourself-and honest to yourself-If you release her and the memory of her back to the universe peacefully and ask the universe to assist you through the process at that bottom you will make a shift and embark and ascend upwards- peace, positive energy to you.

I am so sorry you are going through this. My now EW moved out Feb 3rd, so a little over 5 mos. ago. The hardest emotional time of my life. It has gotten better but I still have a long way to go. People say it's time to concentrate on yourself. It sounds like you are like me. My happiness came from giving my all to her. I couldn't even imagine at the time thinking about myself. She destroyed that when she was unfaithful and moved out. Remember, everything you are feeling is normal and more importantly, necessary to begin the healing process. Good luck to you my friend. It WILL get better. I promise you.

Im going through the same thing right now. 5 years and he just moves out and every day should get easier but its not. Im having small panic attacks over this. I love him and everything reminds me of this and he seems so casual about just walking away

I hate to repost, but I feel like I should. We all need to be strong for ourselves. It’s been 14 months now that he had his breakdown and 6 months that he left. Some days are harder than others. He hardest days for me we’re the Sunday’s I would have to take him back to the airport. Yes, he would come
In and visit. It’s sad how after 18 years of being with someone everything is gone in a few days. Just like everything else in life, keep focusing on the positive. Dealing with him and all of the issues he faced made me realize what a strong person I am. I know I’m going to take a lot of crap for this, but yes I am still trying to be a support system to him. I am the only one he has. I can’t be that mean because I would feel horrible if something would happen to him.

This is such a poignant post. It is so true. The loss happens over and over and over. It is the most painful process. Somehow, it will get better. Someday, you will feel stronger. Until then, I respect your honesty.