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- It's official, circumstance with her friend changed and my wife will be moving in with her friend mid April when her friend's husband gets deployed for 9 months in Afghanistan.I'm going to be alone for the first time in 10 years. The home that once...
- Hi,Well, I'm back. I haven't posted for a few weeks, because so much shit has been going on.1) She finally started her new job 2 weeks ago, the one that I got for her. We now carpool together, since we work for the same company.2) We got intimate a...
- I'm actually quite embarrassed posting this, but here it goes. I got home from a week long business trip Friday night. My wife, suffering from insomnia for over a month saw a doctor that same week and had been prescribed Ambien by her doctor....
- Well, it's 45 minutes past midnight here on the west coast and I just got back to my hotel room. I'm on a week long business trip a few hundred miles away from home and away from a soon to be ex-wife who apparently is manipulating and using me....
- At first the thought of her moving out was so painful. Now I wish she would leave already! It really hurts like hell when she goes out without telling me where she's going and when she gets back I can't ask as it is no longer my business. ...
- I appreciate all the advice I've been getting from this site. I believe this site is very helpful on so many levels. Common themes here are to live for me and focus on me. Avoid contact with her as much as possible, even if she still lives with...
- I love my friends, they are great and supportive. We are currently on a buddies golf trip (originally set for April, but due to my extreme sadness they bumped it up for me). Anyway, we are at a great place for golf and even more, it's a very...
- So, talked to a couple of buddies and set up a buddies golf trip in early April. It's only been 6 weeks since she told me she wanted to separate, but the fact she still lives with me and acts as if everything's fine with the exception of her going...
- I was at the local grocery store last night. As I was walking down the cereal aisle I noticed a sheet of paper that obviously either fell off a shopping cart or was carelessly dropped by another customer. Anyway, I picked it up as I personally can't...
- Sorry for starting so many threads, but I'm really having a difficult time. Sometimes I'm just done and accept the fact that she destroyed our family and I need to move on, then sometimes I'm super overwhelmed with strong emotions. Case in point,...
- I woke up this morning from a dream that things were great and we were whole again, but now I'm hating my wife. This past 3 day weekend was one of the most emotional weekends since she told me she wanted out of our marriage. Combination of...
- last night was tough. I met with friends for dinner and was home by 8. I wasn't in the mood to stay out. She was out until a little past midnight. I tried so hard not to think about where she is, what she's doing, with whom, etc... But my mind...
- She wants a separation, she will move out as soon as she can afford to, she wants to be amicable while she's still here for the kids' sake. She's no longer in love....If that's the case, why is she still buying stuff to decorate the house? Why did...
- Ever wondered, "What if our ex or soon to be ex have also joined this support group?" I wonder if they saw/read how we feel if it would change anything. Probably not. Just a random thought...
- So I've been going through a number of emotions, mostly between being really hurt and getting angry. I'm hurt because a person who promised to love me for the rest of my life and promised to be by my side until death do us part no longer wants to be...