Widows & Widowers Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have lost a husband, wife, or partner. Anything is open for discussion here, with the hope that we can focus on grief, bereavement, life after loss, and continuing on after a great loss.

Can I start and stop collecting?
I'm 51, he was 53 when he passed away.
thanks!
My real dad past in 97. mom in 99., step dad in 02, and then my husband 09, stange they all got the same amount. but I lost out on my mother due to I couldn't get it within the limited time.. due to daddy.
but the way I look at it, every bit helps and be thankful for it.
I am disabled now so I draw SSD from my record and I get the balance paid to me from widow benefits. It still totals the same amt per month..The only dif it is divided between the 2 .At 65 I will draw a total of straight SSW benefits.
I found the web site didnt really answer my questions in depth so I called them and then I went and talked to them in person and took all my documents. I was approved in a 6weeks time .