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- Well Friday I had to meet my AH at his job in the early afternoon, when he approached me I noticed he looked really pale and was shaking. I don't see him sober this time of the day much so I don't really know what to expect! He told me that he...
- we'll i'm sitting at work and not wanting to be here at all today, I do everything I can to help my AH and take care of our family and home. Our daughter is due any day now and her husband works out of town so i've been staying alot at her house to...
- I still after so many years don't understand the hold alcohol has on my AH, things have been bad lately and i wonder if i make it worst with me trying to set boundaries and trying to focus on me more. I started staying with my pregnant daughter...
- So last night when I got home he was as usual in his chair passed out. I cooked dinner and went to my room to eat, my 14 yr old came in and started to talk about some kittens she had seen that day and walked out. He some how heard pieces of what she...
- So my AH has been working nights all week due to the cold weather. I really love it when this happens, I get to go home after work and relaxe. I have the bed to myself and don't have to be bothered with him touching me. It's been 3 nights now,...
- Why is it they say we are in control when all we ask is for them to stop drinking and they continue???? I had so much to perpare for and all I asked for was some help, our kids and since my sister passed away I have her grown kids and babies come...
- About to head out from work and have so much to do before Christmas so I just wanted to Wish every one a Merry Christmas incase I don't get a chance. May we all have a peacful joyful Holiday!Christmas morning has always been the best for me and my...
- Have just been so upset the past couple of days and unable to even look at my AH. Our 14yr old is a cat lover and resuced a kitten last year that can't move his back legs so he gets around by pulling himself with front paws. Its sad but this cat can...
- Not the first time this has happened but I woke up at 3am this morning from this smell, I have a very senitive nose and it really bothers me. It's like a stale nasty smell that takes over the room. When my AH left for work and kissed me bye I...
- Well another weekend of his drunkeness, big arguemnt saturday night calling me a Liar when I say that I love him! Just because I can't except the fact that he doesn't think he can give it up.... I lived with this BS for 30 years and i'm still there....
- Well it's been kind of quit around the house just staying busy and trying not to rock the boat. But it's been a few weeks since i've given in and he's ready for it again! I'm so tired of feeling like it's my wify duty to give in to him when he has...
- So yes I spoiled my AH over the years and yes I regret it now. I've been trying to find myself and stop making things so easy for him. When I pretend all is good he continues to drink and he's HAPPY! But a couple of days of this I start to fight the...
- I've tried the ignoring him when drunk (which is 98% of the time that he's home) it seemed to work in the beginning. He's still drinking however he was at least trying to be nice. I just get in these moods some days that I can't control my anger and...
- Just last week I posted a comment "he's like the calm before the storm" We'll I was right, friday my brother gave me 2 tickets to a college football game my other brother is a big fan and since my husband could careless since he wouldn't be able to...
- So Labor day weekend I went to Disney with my daughter to celebrate out 4yr olds birthday. AH stayed home, i'm used to him not wanting to go and to be honest things seem to go better. But theirs still the fact that he's drunk texting me while i'm...