So my AH has been working nights all week due to the cold weather. I really love it when this happens, I get to go home after work and relaxe. I have the bed to myself and don't have to be bothered with him touching me. It's been 3 nights now, yesterday morning when he got home he text and said he missed me.... my response was it's only been 2 nights i'm enjoying the peace. I couldn't help myself and yes it pissed him off! He didn't text back, received a good morning text this morning, I love u so much.... 45 mins later I receive another text that he found a pair of my SEXY panties in the laundry! Who did I wear them for since he was working. Ok so these so called SEXY panties that he keeps accusing me of wearing are nothing but knit bikini panties with lace around the top edge from Victoria Secret. Not all panties are overly sexy that comes from VS... Not even sure if he's aware that they came from VS. Anyway i'm so agrevated with him checking my drawers and now the laundry???? He continues and tells me I need to be honest! or I need to divorce him. I said OK, lets divorce since u think i'm cheating and have always thought this over the past 30 yrs. Find u a place or pay for me a place to move. He stated oh, u sleep with another man and I have to loose everything! What man???? Please tell me if it was good or not?! I must have been drunk because I don't remember. But since I don't want sex with him of course there has to be another man! Well he made it clear that he would go to prison before paying for me to live away from him. I've always told him that no matter what I would never take everything from him if we ever divorced. Because he does work hard to provide, but I worked hard also to make things happen and keeping us together. I know its just his drunk talking but it hurts that he thinks so little of me, that he thinks I would after 30 yrs take everything from him. If that were true I would have done it years ago when our kids were living at home. This just puts another notch in our relationship, I don't wanna and have never wanted to hate him but it's getting so close. I rememeber a time when I hated him working at nights or out of town. I couldn't wait for him to come home in the afternoons after work. I don't feel this anymore. I dread going home when I know he's there and I kringe when I receive a text and I see it's him. God help me!