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- I just need to get this off my chest to people who understand.Today I ran into an old acquaintance that I hadn't seen in years. She used to know both me and my ex. We had to leave that social group because of the restraining order - he chose to...
- Hi everyone. I thought I would share the advice I have recently been following from my dermatologist in the spirit of adding to the knowledge bank we've got going on here. HS is such a frustrating illness, and so many of us are looking for any...
- I have been quiet lately as I am in a waiting situation, holding my breath as I find out how my stbx will react to the divorce summons.Last time I posted it was that I had signed the papers and ad him served and I didn't want anyone to think the...
- For those of us whose abusers have a personality disorder such as narcissism or borderline personality disorder or even psychopathy, do you ever get caught in this crazy-making head trip?:People with PD categorize everything into black and white,...
- I signed the divorce papers today and they are being mailed to him.I feel good about it, because I know it is the right decision.I feel relieved because now my children and I will have some legal protection at last.I feel terrified of how he is...
- I finally got in to see a dermatologist, and he said my sores couldn't be HS because I only have them in my groin and not my armpits. Has anyone heard something like that before?He also told me I should treat them by covering them in yogurt every...
- I'm wondering if anyone has suggestions on how to handle unsupportive / antagonistic parents.I am finally filing for divorce from my abusive stbx. There is ample evidence of his abuse towards myself and our children, including more than one...
- This belongs more in a journal I guess but I just want to know if I am the only one.My ex is really fond of projecting / blaming, and I KNOW this, and I am well aware that he was abusive towards the kids: I have the reports from social services and...
- If anyone is around tonight, give me your thoughts real quick...I've received a long, angry email from my ex that is full of accusations that are untrue. He tends to get wrapped up in delusions were he is always right and I am always wrong (which is...
- I saw a doctor yesterday to ask for a referral to a dermatologist. She looked at my HS and per usual she was totally grossed out. She put on these huge gloves and kind of poked at the area and then asked me, I'm not even kidding...."Have you tried...
- Hi everyone, I'm Tulip.MyTrueColors told me about this group over on the divorce board, and I would like to join in. But tell me, do you all talk openly about your abuse here? I am terrified to, because I don't want him tracking me down online. How...
- I got out of an abusive marriage 2 years ago. I am in the process of filing for divorce, but every little move I make gets him so angry, and can cause a flood of horrible emails and phone calls full of threats. This week he is angry that I contacted...
- I know this is kind of gross but where else can I ask?What is inside of your sores? Some of mine seem to be more infected and have pus, but many of mine are just filled with blood, and that seems so weird to me. I had one excised and the doctor was...
- I am recently single after several years in a sexless marriage where I was shamed for my HS. I want to start dating again, and guys show interest in me, but when I think about getting intimate I am like... uh... nope. How do you even do that? I mean...