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Another 'still here'

tulip76
tulip76
I have been quiet lately as I am in a waiting situation, holding my breath as I find out how my stbx will react to the divorce summons.

Last time I posted it was that I had signed the papers and ad him served and I didn't want anyone to think the worst when I dropped out, is all. So far, nothing. I'm well, just waiting.

Peace and strength to everyone who is struggling today.
ElenaNJ
ElenaNJ
Hi tulip. Yes I remember he was being served.

Do u think that he is probably getting his defense plan together? I know u were concerned about his reaction.

I wd surely be extra careful safety wise. If he gets a lawyer, u won't hv to speak to him. Ur lawyers will talk. Aah.
jipsyrose
jipsyrose
Stay safe and thoughts are with you during the waiting game.
tulip76
tulip76
Who the heck knows how he'll react or what he's doing. If there's one ting I would say about him, it's that he's unpredictable. 2 weeks ago he was ranting and raving about how I owe him money and he was going to teach me a lesson. The police had to come remove him. Last week he was sugar and spice and sweet talk and offering to pay hundreds of dollars towards expenses for the kids out of nowhere (don't think I didn't take it, either.) You just never know.