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We are approaching fall, and that means fall fairs.  The major fair near us is the Eastern States Exposition (Big E).  Every year we have "Big E Day" where my wife, step-daughters, and my wife's...

I just got back from vacation with my son at Ocean City, NJ.  He was grumbling about going, the long car ride, etc.  However, as I had hoped, once we got there he had a great time.  We walked the...

This process continues to go through cycles.  I had a very good time skydiving, then a few days later, I went into a deep sadness again.  My Ex was angry with me over who knows what, and she...

I'm so physically and emotionally exhausted right now that I can't think straight, so I appreciate the consistent advice and feedback, even if I struggle to follow it.As a follow-up, she texted me...

I have had a severe setback. Friday night, my Ex texted me saying my son forgot to bring my father's day gifts with him. She suggested I meet her at the house after she went riding with new guy and...

I had my Son Friday afternoon through Wednesday afternoon. We had a great day Saturday. I took him fishing in the morning, and we saw the new Jurassic movie later that afternoon, had a Nerf battle,...

 Well, I thought it was done per my last entry.  Instead, my Ex texted me Monday to "let me know" that "the invite was from your son, and you have hurt him."   I broke NC, a mistake, and replied...

Well, I got a text tonight.  "Nite.  Join us for Father's Day Sunday at 4:00?  Usual steaks."I was expecting the invite, and it is killing me.  If I go to Father's Day, her Father and Brother and...

My Ex has her New Guy over to the house all the time now, and someone just brought it to my attention that she just ordered his and hers Breaking Benjamin T-Shirts for them.  I had to reinforce that...

I just dropped my son off at the house, and was thankful my Ex wasn't there, so I was able to continue no contact, though my heart is in my throat now when I think I might see her.  I decided to...

Well, it is Saturday night and I have not seen my Ex in a week.  No more walks.  No more bike rides.  No seeing her at pick-up or drop-off as I got my son before she was home.I had a pretty good...

So today she says she had been thinking about dating for some time, and that she had posted a note on her bulletin board at work looking for bike buddies as a great way to meet guys.  This was as...

I gave up my weekend with my son so he could spend time with his sister as she is moving to Wisconsin next week.  Then, My Ex decided I could have my son today after they all went on a hike up to...

I received the following this morning from my Ex: It may be hard for you to believe, but this transition away from married life has been as complicated for me as it has been for you. I've made my...

Well, I decided not to let my emotions get in the way of attending the goodbye party for my step-daughter and her boyfriend today.  I told them I would attend, and I got them a card.  I had already...