spouses and illegitimate children Community Group

Hi everyone, I am new and I’m so glad I found this support group. I am just looking for some support from all the... READ MORE

We have been contacted by a former girlfriend of my husband's.  She is claiming that her son could be his.  She has... READ MORE

H had an affair with our coworker, lasted less than a month. OC was born recently, H and OW both declared there would... READ MORE

Hi ladies,I'm still in recovery, taking it one day at a time. The December break was wonderful. I live in South Africa... READ MORE

My husband of 12 years has recently been contacted by his 21 year old son. He knew that he had a child but has never... READ MORE

Hi. I just found out my H had an affair with a woman and now she is pregnant. Her due date is next January.He really... READ MORE

So update.... OC was my DH. He hasn't been as awful over the past year since he was awarded full custody in January, it... READ MORE

Is anyone else in a situation where there is no contact?I figured if there was no child there would be no contact of... READ MORE

Since dday and my husband's willingness to come back to his senses I've had one wish. I've wished for her to find a... READ MORE

Hi everyone,Does anyone have any advice for me... I am supposed to meet the OC for the first time... sometime soon. I... READ MORE

I have been a voyeur in this group for about a month. I reached the end of the Internet researching this topic and... READ MORE

Hi Laides,Hope everyone is hanging gin there. Do any of you ever have those days where you just want to get revenge on... READ MORE

Hi everyone. I'm new to this group. I basically need advice and support. 3 years ago I found out that my H cheated and... READ MORE

I'm not starting a political debate but I am curious who has undergone a political metamorphasis since dday.I think I... READ MORE

I have never seen this group so quiet before and I've been on here since 2011!  What is everyone up to?  How were... READ MORE