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  Are these feelings normal?

  Posted by: Bokkie

  Posted: 01/11/2018

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  Hi ladies,I'm still in recovery, taking it one day at a time. The December break was wonderful. I live in South Africa so we have out festive season in summer.  We had lots of fun outdoors with the children, it was a good distraction.I have however, been grappling with a crop of new feelings. Sometimes I feel disgusted with him. I mean, the women he cheated with are so gross. He has explained that it wasn't about how they looked, but rather about feeding his low self esteem, but I still feel...

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  Can't get over this betrayal

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  Last Reply: AuntTAnn 01/01/2019

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  Hi everyone. I'm new to this group. I basically need advice and support. 3 years ago I found out that my H cheated and had a two year old daughter who was born a few weeks after my first child. He had never had contact with this child. The OW knew he was married and slept with him anyway. It happened after we had a huge arguement and he stayed with a friend for 2 weeks. He didn't see her after that. I asked him repeatedly if he had anything else he was hiding and he said no. I decided to try to...

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  Posted: 01/30/2017

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  Posted: 01/30/2017

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